These types of threads amp up my anxiety. My DD6 and I will be visiting Aulani for the first time in late June. It is just the two of us as my DH passed away suddenly in late 2014 and we're still adjusting. My kid can (and will) swim for hours but not well enough for me not to be with her, and I can't imagine not being able to put our items on a chair and then enjoy the pool for as long as she wants for fear our items will be swept away.
On another topic, I simply can't stand in line for an hour or two each morning to sign up for activities at Auntie's because I won't leave her alone in our room and she certainly will not tolerate standing in a slow moving line for that long (ADHD). So now I'm left wondering how to make things work without an extra set of hands to stand in line, hold the chair(s) by the pool, run to grab QS food or drinks, etc.
Can anyone alleviate my anxiety?
For your scenario, I strongly recommend the grotto infinity pool area in the back corner by the four seasons. Here's why:
Small enough pool to see your daughter at all times but big enough for her to swim her heart out.
Hot tub within the pool
You can sit in your chair when you want and still see your daughter swim. And there lifeguard is very vigilant and close by.
Panoramic ocean view!!!
A few steps from a restroom
A few more steps to ULU cafe for snacks, food and to refill drinks
Not far to the snorkel pool, the hotdog stand, the shaved ice, and lava shack sundries.
To get a chair at the pools edge, even if you need only 1, you'll have to go down by 5:30am and put your things down quickly. (If you know where you're going, 10 mins max) Then have breakfast and get packed to here at 8 to get your bands and towels. And have a blast!!!
I have left my kids for 10 mins at a time to use the restroom or grab snacks with no problems. I bring an iPad and headphones for them for those times and they don't move. If you have an umbrella it's perfect.
If you go down at 8, I don't think you'd find any chairs in that area even the seats that don't have a view of the pool to see your daughter so it's worth the trouble to sneak out and grab them.
We haven't used auntys at all. I'm sure there is fun stuff but mine would rather swim and they have been going to bed at 7 or so because they are beat. It is a total madhouse over there in the morning though, which has deterred us. We walk by to have Breakfast with a view at Ama Ama (we've walked up nearly every morning without a problem at all!) for a gorgeous view and great breakfast at usual prices is a great pregame and relaxing start to be present, regroup and connect.
You're gonna have an amazing trip. Your DH will be there in every gorgeous sunset with you. Xoxo