Doing a picnic near the falls would be cool. We'll have to plan it out to see when we all have some time open.
We'll be doing WDW before the crusie. We've done a couple days before our last two Disney cruises and actually planned a whole week before our first
Disney cruise but that didn't end up working out. Anyways I'm looking forward to doing a whole week before this next time. We've actually tryed planning for extra days each cruise BUT we've ended up having a large group traveling with us for the past two cruises that we've always cut back to accomadate everyones schedules. This year we're going for it (at least I hope)...and anyone cruiseing with us that can't do the full time at WDW can just fly in and join us when they can
We're sticking with doing WDW before the cruise because our kids will acutally be missing the FIRST few days of school while being on the ship. Our school start half way though the week before Labor day...so they'll be missing Wednesday-Friday of the first week. It could be hard...but we figure the first three days of school is better than nearly two weeks after school starts...I'm thinking the hardest thing will be for our younger daughter..she'll be moving up to ther middle school that year...so she'll be missing the first few days at the NEW school.

I acutally JUST realized that.

I knew she'd be missing the first few days..but I just put the fact she'll be moving UP that year. Hmmmm
Well..it'll get worked out on way or another... We'll more than likely stay at Pop. We've stayed there for our trips in the past and have been happy with it. We like the busses and how Pop doesn't share with the other resorts and for as little as we're at the resort...it works well for us. Plus since we'll be having others traveling with us...it fits great in EVERYONES budget.
I really don't think there are any preffered rotations for dinning. I know the idea of having formal night in Luminers is ideal or to have Pirate night in Parrot Cay...But in all reality it doesn't matter. We've been on three Disney cruises so far and have had a formal night in Parrot Cay and Luminers...and honestly they were both enjoyable...the setting didn't make or break the night. On our first cruise I wanted SOOO badly to have everything perfect and have just the right dinning room for the nights theme...so I put in the request and got it

BUT didn't plan on having a change in itenary making formal night move....anyways I was totally bumbed that now Formal night was going to be PC... Turns out I worried for NOTHING. It was great. The following year we lucked out and got the 'ideal' rotation again...and this time we actally ended up having formal night in Luminers..and you know what...it was the same as having it in PC...Turned out the setting didn't matter. Anyways I totally know what your saying about wanting to be in Luminers for formal night...but I can also tell you it REALLY won't matter once your on the ship.
IMO...deciding between two days at MK or one at HS and MK...with a 4yr....I'd pick the two days at MK. Like SleeyatDVC said there is sooo much to see at MK that you'll be busy for two days there no matter what. I'd actually think only one day at MK...you'd leave there feeling like you missed sooo much. Plus they have a good deal of things geared towards that age group...where HS may have some...I just don't think they have as much.
mrsmoore...I can't belive you have flights already. Makes me feel like I'm SOOOO far behind on the planning.
I'm off to look at flights and add the rest of our party to the booking (gotta get in before the May 28th thing)