Virginia, our friends moved from DC to Richmond 3 years ago and their house is absolutely amazing. While here we stay, in a crappy townhouse/rowhouse thing with no yard. They even have a pool!
And we are no fans of the traffic either. My husband works at GW otherwise we'd move. He's done in 2 years so we're looking to either move outside the city then (even if he stays at GW), or out of state. We'll see what happens.
And yes, after all those cruises in a short amount of time, we will greatly miss it. We've got the one on 9/1, then this cruise next August then probably none for awhile. We're planning on a 3rd kid sometime after that cruise and having done a cruise while 7 weeks pregnant, well, like you said, I was sick the entire time. No need to repeat that. So not planning on any cruises while pregnant and don't want to sail with a super young baby, so it will be awhile. I've come to love the ship more than any other place we've been to so it will be missed.
And about the clubs, my daughter was just over 4yo on our last cruise and LOVED the Oceaneer Club! She was in that thing every waking moment that we allowed her to be in there. We had to pull her out at night, around 11pm, cause WE were tired and wanted to go to sleep! She really loved it, so I hope you have that luck too. We also don't have babysitters here, and our family doesn't live in this area, so the cruise is the only time we're kid-free. Probably why we love
DCL so much!