attraction

[Sparx]

physically and emotionally what are you attracted to? what physical attributes do you love and what do you hate? personality wise, what will seal the deal and what drives you insane? what do you look for in someone?

 

[Tinkerbell424]

Physically:
Arms - must have good, strong arms.
Dark hair - Most guys I like seem to have dark hair
In Shape - Like the arms..I dont know, it just makes me feel safe and protected
Clear skin - doesn't have to be perfect.

Emotionally:
Humour - no humour, no attraction
Honesty - i cant stand it when people lie...if a boy lies to me, im done.
Trust
Personality - major attraction when you can hold a conversation longer then 30 minutes.
Sweet

 

[CastawayJ]

who cares what someone looks like

you have to get along with them in the right way

 

[Babyjustrun]

Physical:
I'm just basing this on guys I've liked in the past and the the last one I like. They're usually a lot alike.
I like tall guys, they don't have to be like the tallest, but most of the ones I've liked have TOWERED over me (I think the last one was a foot taller than me, possibly more). They're usually somewhat gangley and skinny, they don't have big builds. I'm not into muscley guys, I think it's gross when there's too much. I'm not picky about hair and eye color, but I love it when their hair is gorgeous. Their hair can't be super long, but I hate short short short short hair. I got really sad when my last crush cut his hair, buzz cut did not suit him. I like brown eyes a bit more than blue, but honestly, the color of someones eyes doesn't define whether I'm attracted to them or not.
I always like a cute smile. Someone who can make me smile just because they're smiling.

Emotionally....
I need a guy who understands how crazy I am. That I enjoy making up silly stories for no reason, and that it keeps me entertained. They have be able to keep a crazy conversation going.

I need a guy who understands that when I'm quiet, I'm just enjoying the quiet. It's not because I find it awkward or think they're boring, I just like to sit with them.

I need a guy who has a good sense of humor. But doesn't everyone? But I do not do gay jokes, racist jokes, or sexist jokes. If a guy can make me laugh and keep me laughing, it's a good thing. =)

I need someone who's willing to get past the awkward conversation at the beginning, who's willing to wait for me to get used to them. I'm not good with people I've just met. Someone who wants to get to know me.

I need someone who remembers things. Who remembers things I like and don't. Someone who cares and doesn't mistake memories with me for someone else. Someone who enjoys spending time with me, that doesn't see our time together as something to do.

Someone who wants me to be happy, or wants to make me happy. Someone who will listen, and cheer me up.

Things that turn me off are:
Acting like a gangster. Sorry, you're white (I don't know any African Canadians), and your dad is a dentist. Stop acting like you're from the hood.

Rude jokes.

Making me feel stupid on purpose.

Being rude to others.

 

[UltraJoshua]

I don't care about out side i don't care if the woman is 500 pounds if she's nice and is loving i'll go for it

 

[xxdisneybebe95xx]

Physically-
skate boarder hair love it!
i also like skateboarderrs

Emotionally-

the guy has to be sweet
funny
nice

 

[KitKat_Tink]

I always usually like guys with dark hair and dark eyes. Usually brown... I usually like tall guys but now i don't really care. Clear skin is a big thing for me

I always go for musicians and writers. Its weird. I also seem to like guys who have probloms which isn't so good but I am for some reason. The guy has to be nice and funny.

 

[Disney.Ears]

I'm going off of Alexis's list haha.

Physically:
Arms - I like strong arms. That way they can hold me That was corny lol.
Hair - For some reason, I like dark haired guys. But then again it doesn't really matter.
Clear skin - I don't really like, acne.
"Style" - I'm not really into skaters, punks, goths, etc. I know it's bad to sterotype but they don't really attract me.

Emotionally:
Sense of Humor - If you make me laugh, props to you. Because once someone makes me laugh I start liking them because I know they'll keep me entertained.
Honesty - If I can't trust a guy, there's no point in being interested in him.
Talking - I like talking to someone for a long time because I get to know them better.
Sweet - I like someone who can keep me smiling.

 

[I'm a Divaaaaa]

Physically -

NICE TEETH. First and foremost above everything else, ahaha.
I also like skinny guys with really dark hair and bright eyes. I like boys that can dress but not better than me. I wouldn't mind stealing his clothes every once in a while. I like taller guys too. I'm really tiny so when a guy can really hold me, I'm into that.


Emotionally -

Someone that isn't afraid to say whatever is on their mind is really attractive to me. I like people with their own opinions and aren't completely whipped. Funny guys are amazing. Basically, he should keep me guessing. I don't want to get bored. Spontaneity is really appealing.

 

[Babyjustrun]

I think I would hate a guy who would constantly ask 'What are you thinking?'
I dunno, I see that a lot in books and movies, and if I actually met a guy who did that, I'd be driven nuts.

 

[amloveaffair]

I'm not going to lie, I have to be physically attracted to someone to like them as more than a friend. It's gotta be someone who, when you look at, makes you smile from ear to ear because they're so cute! Someone who you can really, honestly be yourself around despite how many times you've said it about other guys, it's truer this time. Someone who constantly keeps you laughing and feeling like you're on Someone with strong arms to hold you in every night. I could go on and on and on.

Luckily, I've got that someone.

 

[CrazyChik]

I like guys who can take my moods and my heavy sarcasm.
Personality is really important to me. I like my guys sweet, funny and sensitive but not too sensitive.
As for physical stuff, dark hair and dark eyes is yummy. And oh my prominent hipbones <333333.
xD
I'm not really attracted to just one type though.

 

[Cali_Sparrow]

Body build isn't a big deal to me with guys. If you have a nice body it's a plus, but I really don't care. Love dark messy hair, dark eyes, and glasses. Piercings and tattoos are okay in good taste. Taller than me is preferable (which is easy, I'm short). But I'm not picky either. I would never turn down a date based on appearance.
Personality, I love having someone with a similar sense of humor. Where everything is funny basically. And they have to like similar movies! I've been dragged to so many lame ones on dates, I'm over it! Oh and I can't stand when guys spend the entire time they're around you trying to suck your face off!!! I'm just not that physical. haha.

I tend to date musicians or artists and though I have dated "white" guys, I have not had a relationship with any. Heritage doesn't matter to me at all. I love everything!

 

[BandGeek911]

I don't care about out side i don't care if the woman is 500 pounds if she's nice and is loving i'll go for it

Why can't all guys be like you?
lol

Their looks is like a bonus for me. I don't want to judge guys by how they they look. Looks should not determine a relationship. That seems kind of shallow. Sure, I'd like a guy with a nice body, and face..but I want a good personality lol.

For phsyical traits, I don't like really really skinny skater type bodies. I want a little muscle or a little belly. Like, a little chubby, not...morbidly obese...ya know? And he has to have nice teeth.

The guy I have a crush on now (Or I did during the school year) had like...dark blonde hair. And it was flowy and amazing. I normally like dark haired boys, but his hair was an exception. lol

For personality loyalty and trust is a MUST. If I feel he isn't loyal or trustowrthy, it's...eh. Not good. A sense of humor is nice too. But he has to know when to be serious.

I want him to like me for me.

 

[MonorailDude]

It's never really been a first sight and I know I like them thing. It's usually how close I can get with them as friends. Anything else will take care of itself. I'm not really picky about girls, but if I don't feel the connection with them, then I obviously can't go for them. It usually just clicks when the time's right for me. I'll find myself talking to them for 4 hours and not wanting to stop.

It's all about if they make you happy in that way other people don't. That inner beauty that illuminates their outter attraction. And finally, if they show that they like you back. Big plus.....

 

[KidGoofy]

It doesn't really matter to me as long as she is nice and sweet. But it is a plus if she has a nice smile and eyes.

 

[disneychick2721]

If anything a guy with a sense of humor.
Im really sarcastic so that too.
Im really not romantic, so I dont like that.
Someone who is nice, I like nice, innocent guys, I dont like the tough guy act.
I like guys who know what they want to do, not slackers or people who just dont give a crap.
I like someone to really talk to, I like having intellectual conversations.
They should understand im independent, I hate clingy guys.
I like manly guys, but they should be sensitive too.

As for looks, it really doesn't matter as much as personality.
I prefer average weight, and tall guys.
I like when guys dress well.

 

[EeyoreFan1]

I don't have specific physical characteristics, but I have a thing for blue eyes. Emotionally, they have to be completely honest, sweet, and loving. And quite frankly if they can put up with me that's good enough..

 

[disneyworldluvr349]

I like a guy who loves me for who I am, with or with out make up, with or without beautiful clothes. They have to be funny and romantic. Looks don't matter if he's the right one.

 

[goofyandplutoluver]

Physically:
Well I love shaggy dark hair. I'm like obsessed with it.
A nice smile.
Gorgeous eyes.
I don't like skinny-mini guys. I like muscular, lean dudes.
And they have to be taller than me.

Emotionally:
Humor, caring, trust, loyal, sweet, athletic, and talkative like me. xD