At Lease 3 Things ~4/14/08~

[aroyer]

We've been there before.. .DH is unhappy at times..but he has a job now that lets him work from home at times and he likes it better that way.. they set him off.. he works from home.. he sets me off: he goes back to the office!

In all seriousness.. DH was in that boat several years ago... At least your DH is not jumping before he has something else in line... just keep being supportive and keep showing him that the kids love Daddy for the job he does so well already... loving and providing for them!!!! Maybe make some cards w/ the kids that tell daddy how much they love him... I'm sure you all already show him alot of support.. maybe something he doesn't expect will brighten his day!!

Thank you for the kind words Nancy! They made me cry. Great idea to make cards, the kids would LOVE that and I know they would mean the world to him. You guys help me so much to take my mind off of worrying!

 

[SusieStone]

Thank you for the kind words Nancy! They made me cry. Great idea to make cards, the kids would LOVE that and I know they would mean the world to him. You guys help me so much to take my mind off of worrying!

Maybe you can have a daddy day. Have his favorite stuff. Buy him some bubbles to blow and sidewalk chalk, et his favorite magazine or something to do with his guilty hobby. Father's Day is in June but you can have daddy day any day.


But just let him know he is the best guy in the world

 

[aroyer]

Susie, thanks for the great ideas!! I think I will try to figure out a Daddy Day.

 

[tinkryansmom]

Uhm....wasn't this supposed to be, you know, like THREE things??

I put all the trivial things done so I feel better when one of the major things don't get accomplished... LOL

I stay much more on task when I do this list.

I copy and paste it into a word doc and take it around with me through the house and on errands.

Now that is a really good idea!!

 

[tinkryansmom]

Thanks for the prayers and pixie dust. DH is horribly unhappy in his job- wants to quit but needs to find a new job first. He is worried about providing for his family- just lots of stress! He has some leads but each morning he is just so unhappy. It breaks me heart!

aroyer I feel your pain. My DH - god love him - is in the same position. He has one strong lead out right now. So I will keep fingers crossed for both of them!

 

[tinkryansmom]

Oh yes, and EVERYONE FEEL BETTER.

there...pixie dust...make it so!

 

[aroyer]

aroyer I feel your pain. My DH - god love him - is in the same position. He has one strong lead out right now. So I will keep fingers crossed for both of them!

Hugs to you guys! Yes, I will be thinking of you guys too- it helps to know you aren't alone.

 

[party of 3]

Thanks for the prayers and pixie dust. DH is horribly unhappy in his job- wants to quit but needs to find a new job first. He is worried about providing for his family- just lots of stress! He has some leads but each morning he is just so unhappy. It breaks me heart!

so sorry to hear this ashley. i had been wondering also. i've seen it on your list everyday. let me tell you that's exactly where i was 1 1/2 years ago. i was so unhappy. i cried everyday going to and coming home from work. it was just awful. finally the job i'm at now called and said they were looking for someone and was I interested?! i could not even believe it. it will happen. i just know it. he will find something. all i can say was that thank god i had dh and ds. they were the ones that helped me keep my sanity during the whole time. they were the best support ever. dh would tell me everyday, "holl, just quit". yea right. if i could just quit i would have done it when ds was born. it was hard at the time. like nancy said, just keep up the support. he will appreciate it. i know i did. i will keep you and your family in my thoughts and prayers that something will come along soon.
hugs,prayers,love, pixie dust to all of you!

 

[party of 3]

aroyer I feel your pain. My DH - god love him - is in the same position. He has one strong lead out right now. So I will keep fingers crossed for both of them!

so sorry to hear this tinkryansmom. i will also keep him in my thoughts and prayers that this strong lead will pan out. just keep the faith. it's hard to see someone you love be so unhappy. just keep up the support. he needs it now more than ever. hugs,love,prayers and pixiedust to all of you.

 

[aroyer]

Thank you for your sweet words Holly! It helps me immensely knowing I have my DIS family encouraging and praying for us!

 

[Lisa]

Fingers crossed for job searching quest.

 

[StitchIsOurHero]

Ashley & tink&ryansmom--your families are in my thoughts and prayers!! I just know that the perfect jobs will come through!!

 

[aroyer]

Thank you so much! The hardest part for me is the waiting- I am not the worlds most patient person.