Sharon, I feel for you. My middle DS is on the spectrum and cognitively impaired, and like your son, he loves Disney and always responded well there and was far more interactive there than he ever was at home. He learned to recognize his name there, his colors there, and even finally, at almost 8 years old, was finally potty trained there. People who do not have a child with disabilities simply cannot understand what everyday life is like for families with children with disabilities. If our lives seem 'easier' the one week a year we are at Disney because we might be able to get on an attraction faster than someone with typically developing children can, they should look at our lives the other 51 weeks a year.
Fortunately for us, our DS has come a long way. He is 16, with a mental age of 7 and PDD, but he is communicative. I think for him, Disney's new policy will work, because he is able to tolerate moderate waits, particularly if he is not stuck in a small space with other closely crowded around as is the case in the regular lines. When he was little, it probably would not have worked, especially on the days when the meltdowns were so frequent and we were lucky if we could do 4-6 hours in the park. For families that currently have those challenges, and even worse challenges that this policy is not going to work for, I feel very sorry for them, and angry at those who abused the system.
Here's my question.....people say Disney can't check for 'proof' of disability, hence why it was so easy to scam the system. My question is, why not? Why is that a violation of privacy? My dad has a handicap placard for his car, and I'm pretty sure he had to have a doctor's note detailing his need for it before it was issued. How is this any different? To me, if you are asking for accommodations that differ from what everyone else gets, you should have to prove it. Anybody that has a problem with that probably doesn't really have a true need! And yes, I do know of several families who have children on the spectrum who did not truly need the GAC for faster access to attractions (because really, that is what it typically provides, not always, but generally if it's not a mobility issue), but heard you could get it so they did. These are families who go to Hershey Park, Dutch Wonderland, and other places and stand in the regular lines and the kids are fine. So yes, I do believe this system was abused even by those who were not totally lying, their child had a disability but they greatly exagerated the needs in order to get the GAC. Shame on them.