Are your husbands spontanously romantic

[wideeyes]

Hi
We are going to NY in March for 3 nights on our own. It will be nice to have some romance. I think I have been watching too many girly films lately.

hope you have a lovely and romantic time on your trip to NYC, it sounds like you really deserve it.

 

[Mrs Night-Train]

My DH can be quite romantic sometimes. Definitely at my birthday and Christmas, he comes up with little gifts that are just that wee bit different.

 

[mark&sue]

I really hate flowers. Mark did have flowers delivered to my work one year on valentines day and I just kept going on how I wanted alcohol instead, so hopefully won't get flowers again.

He has never really been romantic but did ask me to marry him after we had been going out together six weeks and we married straight away so we have been together 15 years and married for 15 years.

I find the less romantic a partner is the more it means when they actually do make romantic gestures. So roll on the next time!!


Susan

 

[jjk]

Dh is not romantic in the lots of flowers way but he helps out loads and works extremley hard and is constantly trying to make our life together better

 

[Clare D]

Is my DH romantic? NO Would I change him? NO
On our recent trip he and DS wandered off to the newsagent in the airport. On their return he told me to close my eyes as he had got me a present. When I opened them there was a tube of vaseline for lips sitting there. I had mentioned to him that I hadn't got anything for my lips due to the regulations and he remembered this when he went to go and get a newspaper.
This is romance for him. Bearing in mind that Igave him the $ to go into the shop with in the first place so you could say I bought it for myself

 

[goaliewife]

WOW...you ppl actually get gifts and flowers on birthdays and such? Lucky women, I am jealous now. My other half's idea of romantic is washing the dishes or calling to say he will be home for lunch soon. Hey at least he DOES the dishes(my most hated chore) tho I do check them before I put food on them just to be on the safe side. He has been known to leave ucky things on a few. BLEHH!

Wow, dishes or comes home for lunch with you. I would consider that to be wonderfully romantic.

My DH is spontaneously romantically challenged. No flowers, no cards, half the time no happy birthday. I don't think that he came from a very spontaneously loving family. I love his parents and I think that they are wonderful, but somewhere along the line DH didn't pick up any romance. I know that he was terribly hurt by his first wife.

I could go on about this because it is a very sore subject with me. I don't expect flowers, candy, extravagant gifts, but a card or an acknowledgement on special occasions would be wonderful.

Okay, enough boohooing from me.

 

[Ware Bears]

The last time I had flowers was when my middle DD was born ~ she is 12 in two weeks LOL and I only got them then because eldest DD who was 2 wanted to take flowers to the hospital!

My DH's idea of romance is to bring me home a chocolate bar or some cheap cakes the supermarket are selling off this means more than him buying flowers which just isn't him, mind you it doesn't do much for my waistline!