My parents divorced when I was three. Mom's been married three other times since (twice to the same man -- married, divorced, remarried). Dad's married two other times. My maternal grandmother was married twice, my aunts have both been married twice. We don't do marriage well in my family. I'm married to my husband for 17 years. I've decided if this marriage ends, I have learned my lesson and paid attention to history -- I will not get married again.