I have a DS9 who is dying for someone to talk to, too. He may be a bit younger than your DD is interested in chatting with, but I thought I would send a note anyway. He is an outgoing, funny, intelligent 4th grader who enjoys anything Gamecube or Playstation, reading, writing, soccer and baseball. He has a lot of older friends - the 13 y/o boy next door and he play all the time.
I tried to get a kids thread going for this very reason - I'll try to post a link - not sure if I know how to do this. Maybe if they start chatting there, others will join in. Or, you can send me a PM and we can get them talking.
I noticed your "Red Sox" reference, too. Warning, the men in my house are Yankees fans, but not to worry, the women are die hard Red Sox lovers!!!! Are you from Boston?