http://www.wdwinfo.com/wdwinfo/cruise-new/cr-stateroom-navigator.htm
Here is the link to the thread that shows some of the activities for the kids. It is in the main page of the cruise line forum. They used to have their own navigators, but they now combine the information on the bottom of the adult navigators. The ages in the club are 3 - 7 , the lab is 8 - 12 and the teens are in the stack I believe. Each of those groups is broken down into two ages. The 3-7 are broken into 3-4 and 5-7. The ages 5-7 split their time between in the club where they will combine back up with the younger group and in the lab where they are more on their own. The 8-12 also split up into two groups: 8-9 and 10-12. The 10-12 will split their time between the lab and the stack where the teens hang out. The teens now have the Quest where they can spend some of their time.
Each group will also use the whole ship basically. There is the sports deck for outdoor games, the theatre for movies, studio sea for indoor games, and the whole ship for scavenger hunts. LOL! The older kids meet up for pool activities at night.
My kids have a blast, but to be honest some do not. I can't ever get mine out of the clubs. My oldest has been through all the groups but 3-4 and my middle was in that group. You can look at the navigators to see specific activities. In the lab, there are playstation games, they make flubber, they make commercials, they draw animations and they just hang out. The younger kids do a lot of dress up, their own computer games for their age, character come visit and they do typical Kindergarten art projects. There are also late night movies in either the club or outside.
I usually have my kids pick out some activities for the cruise that they consider "must-do's" so we can arrange our stuff around them. Then, they basically go in first thing and I make them come out for dinner and lunch on most days. Like I said, my kids love the stuff they do and don't want to come out.
When it gets closer--maybe when school starts up again--they can start emailing eachother. Which school do they go to in Norwalk? I used to work for the husband of a teacher in Marvin School (I think that is where she worked). I used to work for the sidewheeler that is docked down at Calf Pasture Beach--they aren't running it this year. The owner is a friend of mine. I don't even mind meeting up with you, somewhere public of course, where the kids can meet eachother prior to the cruise.
Anyway, that is probably way more info than you wanted.
Deb