
I'm sorry it's been such a rough ride for you.
If you're not currently TTC, have you considered going on the pill? It helps a lot with the acne, plus helps protect your ovaries by keeping cysts from forming.
Getting to the correct dose of Glucophage should help with the weight loss. Have you ever tried a sensible reduced carb diet like South Beach? It might be worth a shot!
As for the hair, it sucks! No other polite way to put it. I've got a fair amount of arm hair, but I just live with it. It doesn't bother me too much and it's not that dark. I honestly couldn't tell you if the Spironolactone helps or not, because I've been on it for almost 10 years!
The facial hair, unfortunately, was not helped by the Spiro, Glucophage, or BCPs. The only thing that has worked for me is Vaniqa.
Of course, my insurance won't cover Vaniqa since it's considered "cosmetic" (we can cover Viagra, but I'm supposed to just suck it up as the bearded lady??). My facial hair really bothered me. I'm fair skinned and it was black and thick. I did so much tweezing and waxing and all, and it never quite worked.
Finally I realized that life was too short and this was making me too miserable to continue, so I decided to just bite the bullet and pay for the Vaniqa. It's expensive, but it turned out to not be as expensive as I'd thought. The tubes cost $48 at Costco (you don't have to be a Costco member to use their pharmacy). I got my first tube on 1/31 and I'm now beginning my 3rd tube here in August. So it's going to cost me about $200 for the year, which I found worth it to be free of the hell of facial hair!
It's not a total miracle cure. You have to put it on twice a day, and if you miss a couple of applications it shows! Some hair still does grow back, but it takes it quite a while. I've gone from daily tweezing to a light waxing every other week or so. That's more than good enough for me!
You can get a $25 mail in rebate at
www.tryvaniqa.com (mine came quickly) and either your OB/GYN or GP can perscribe it.
I don't know if your hair bothers you as much as mine bothers me, but I can tell you that deciding to treat it was one of the better decisions I've ever made. I don't constantly worry about my face any more. I'm not scared to stand close to people. I don't spend 30 minutes every day tweezing. It's been great!