our wedding date is december 16, which is 3 days after my birthday, the day after my mom's birthday, and of course 9 days before christmas. at first i was hesitant to have all of these occasions in the same week, but now i just think it will make the holiday season something to look forward to even more! we chose that day because we love Christmastime at Disney, and DF is a teacher, so it helps that he has some time off for the honeymoon. Also, we thought it would be a good time for guests to travel, since it's during value season (i.e. cheaper room rates) but it's not too busy at the parks yet, and all of the beautiful decorations are up! good luck to whatever you decide!