budbeerlady
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Can anyone do a dream analysis? (Or tell me how to make it go away!?!?!?) Sorry long post coming.....
I have this dream or one really similar every couple of months, I would love to know what it means or how to stop having it. I will wake up all bummed out and it just bugs me. (I know, it's just a dream... but it still bugs me!
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The back ground :I have had good male friend for 12 years +, we talk about once a month since growing up, having kids, getting married and basically becoming adults. Some months more often but we try to stay in contact and keep each other up to speed with the others life.
The dream has had other people in it, some famous people in it but it always follows the same pattern and ends the same. Last night we are hanging out in a bar (dont remember that the place was familiar in any way, it has randomly in the past been a bar we used to visit from time to time on the weekend) Shooting pool, having a couple of drinks,
but not drinking to get drunk but relaxing and talking kinda drinking. We talk, it is getting later. I come back to the table we are sitting at, and friend gets mad. Yells at me in the bar to leave him alone, storms off and I wake up. 
After the first couple dreams like this I stopped calling friend, I thought I was interferring with his life or something. (I do really think dreams tell us stuff if we chose to listen to them.) I kinda missed having him to bounce things off or telling him the cutest thing my dd did. But he kept calling me and assured me I wasnt bothering him, that my dreams were off base and it was just a silly dream.
But this has been going on for a couple of years, I dont get it! The best one (even though I woke up irritated and confused again) was when we were drinking in this bar with Tim Mcgraw and Kenny Chesney. We were doing the usual sitting at a table hanging out and talking, joking with them like old friends. But it ended the same way, friend yelling at me and walking out. "Why do you always do this, just leave me alone!"
Its enough to drink me to drink in a real bar. Dh thinks I worry too much and it wouldnt be bad but it bugs me the next day. I feel bad and like I really lost my friend.
Any guesses, anyone have anything similar?
I have this dream or one really similar every couple of months, I would love to know what it means or how to stop having it. I will wake up all bummed out and it just bugs me. (I know, it's just a dream... but it still bugs me!
)The back ground :I have had good male friend for 12 years +, we talk about once a month since growing up, having kids, getting married and basically becoming adults. Some months more often but we try to stay in contact and keep each other up to speed with the others life.
The dream has had other people in it, some famous people in it but it always follows the same pattern and ends the same. Last night we are hanging out in a bar (dont remember that the place was familiar in any way, it has randomly in the past been a bar we used to visit from time to time on the weekend) Shooting pool, having a couple of drinks,
but not drinking to get drunk but relaxing and talking kinda drinking. We talk, it is getting later. I come back to the table we are sitting at, and friend gets mad. Yells at me in the bar to leave him alone, storms off and I wake up. After the first couple dreams like this I stopped calling friend, I thought I was interferring with his life or something. (I do really think dreams tell us stuff if we chose to listen to them.) I kinda missed having him to bounce things off or telling him the cutest thing my dd did. But he kept calling me and assured me I wasnt bothering him, that my dreams were off base and it was just a silly dream.
But this has been going on for a couple of years, I dont get it! The best one (even though I woke up irritated and confused again) was when we were drinking in this bar with Tim Mcgraw and Kenny Chesney. We were doing the usual sitting at a table hanging out and talking, joking with them like old friends. But it ended the same way, friend yelling at me and walking out. "Why do you always do this, just leave me alone!"
Its enough to drink me to drink in a real bar. Dh thinks I worry too much and it wouldnt be bad but it bugs me the next day. I feel bad and like I really lost my friend.
Any guesses, anyone have anything similar?
