The Deaf I know believe in Deaf Gain and don't view not having hearing as a loss. I understand why with Menieres you feel that way, though. However, those who are Deaf (part of a worldwide Deaf Culture) not deaf (aren't part of Deaf Culture) would take offense at it being called a disability. Anyone going to Silent Weekend is part of Deaf Culture, regardless of their hearing status. I really didn't want to offend them. (and, btw, "hearing impaired" is considered not PC in Deaf Culture as it talks about what they don't have rather than what they do. Deaf is the preferred term.)
Losing your hearing later in life would certainly be more challenging. The friends I have in that situation fall into 2 groups: those who learn sign and participate in Deaf Culture and those who don't. It seems that the support of the Deaf community has helped in that there is a whole network out there who don't hear, wouldn't change that, and are very happy. It's good to know you aren't alone, and there is another language with people ready to help you learn, but I know it's still hard missing hearing. Best of luck to you, Jacqui!
I think we will see other signers at Disney. I'm really looking forward to it, but I'm afraid I'll get there and my receptive skills will be rusty.
