Anyone ever change their lives completely?

[MosMom]

I don't want to go into why I'm asking this because you will all think I'm crazy (which I am but the longer I can keep that secret the better).

Has anyone decided they wanted something more and went for it? I'm 29, married, two kids and I've always felt like I was destined for something else. Not that I don't want my kids and hubby...they're not getting off that easy. I've been a SAHM for 7 years and gave up a lot to do that.

Depending on how things go, it would change our lives forever (not sure if it would be for the good or bad - it would definitely involve taking a chance). I've always had a fear of failure and this would be a big step for me. That is part of the reason why I don't want to go into more details. I will most likely chicken out and then make a fool out of myself.

I talked to DH about it tonight and so far he seems to be really supportive which is great. I'm just wondering if anyone has ever decided that they wanted to follow a dream or wanted more and did it! How did it turn out? Did you fall flat on your face or did you succeed?

It could just be hormones talking and a week from now I will tell you all to get out the brain eraser and forget I ever posted this.

 

[tonyswife]

Go for it! We're in the process of moving out of CA. We plan to do it within 6 months, we have about 6 different "action plans" depending on the job search situation. We just know that no matter what, our dream isn't here

 

[yourtravelpro]

Go for it! If you don't you might always regret it!

With your husband's support, you can't go wrong!

 

[Deesknee]

ya - 8 yrs infertility. All I ever wanted was kids. Got preg with triplets. Drs at that time suggested "selective termination" THE toughest decision in my life. I was told the chances all 3 babies and I would come out of this healthy were "extremely slim". I have 3 perfectly healthy wonderful 13yo. (thank you God). I gave up my "career" to be a stay at home mom also. I had just started back to work almost full time when we celebrated our 20 wedding anniversary in Disney. Guess what? I'm a stay at home mom again. Our newest daughter is 1. My point being, if you let it sometimes these things work out just the way they are supposed too. My biggest problem is all to often I try to run the show, instead of just being "guided".

Prayers and well wishes which ever way you lean.

 

[wasabi girl]

Going for a dream is never a failure. It is only a failure when you don't even try. What a great gift to give to your DH and your children...the courage to follow your dreams.

 

[Serena]

You gotta try.

 

[Dan Murphy]

You're going to be a moderator here?????

 

[MosMom]

Yeah Dan, it's my dream. But when oh when will it ever come true. *sigh*

 

[justhat]

I can't really comment since I don't know what you're planning, but when you think about it, getting married and having kids changes your life completely so if you can do that, then you can do it again. I think you mean something that would change all your lives, and that you're nto sure if it will be good, but if you've got your husband's support it can't be too bad, so I'd go ahead and give it a try.

 

[eeyore74]

Have you read "Who Moved My Cheese"? It helped me finally decide to something I've been debating about. It's a short story, so it's nothing brain taxing, but it helps you think.

Good luck! Follow your dreams.

 

[Laurabearz]

Your trying out for BB6 arent you???

The start of even the shortest journey starts with just one step.

 

[totalia]

Yep I have. It was scarey but I got through it and came out the better for it. You will too.

 

[ripleysmom]

I did. You should too.

 

[chrissyk]

We're in the process of changing our lives...sold our first home and moved away from our great neighbors, moving from New England to FL, DH is changing jobs, we may decide to have a kid soon. Most of all, in the past year I've changed my life by giving myself permission not to worry about the toxic people in my life anymore. THAT was a huge change for the better. They're still mired in the same "issues," but I feel 1000 times better Changing your life in a big way is scary, but sometimes it's the only way you grow.

 

[piglet too]

I feel that it is safe to say that whatever your dream is, that it is not something that will hurt any of you. Your husband is behind you, and I can tell you that we are too! Dreams are meant to go after, otherwise why dream them?

 

[Feralpeg]

Well, I gave up a job that I'd had for 30 years and a salary of over $100K to move to Florida and make candy baskets. I did it because I like Florida, but mostly so that DD can persue her dream of a career in film. So far, no regrets. Although, I strongly doubt I will make as much on the candy baskets as I did at my prior job.

 

[luvwinnie]

No, but I am tempted! Mostly I would love to move to somewhere quiet, simple (In NY metro area right now)...but I do not want to leave my family and DH has his widowed mom here also.
GO FOR IT!!!!!

 

[minniepumpernickel]

OMG- I think that you should go for it! Everyone should have the feeling that you can control your own destiny. Take small steps at first, to follow your dreams. Atleast keep your options open to the possibility.

I'm glad I read this! It's inspirational!

 

[TandJ61574]

Mo'sMom, ~ May I suggest two books that changed my life?

1. The Dream Giver

2. The Purpose Driven Life

I promise you that you will never be the same!

 

[MosMom]

Wow! Thanks for all the feedback! I slept on it and I still feel I need to do this so I'm going to set an action plan in motion. I think I will regret it if I don't at least TRY to make this happen. It is funny...I'm only 29 yet I feel like time is running short. It seemed so easy to say "follow your dreams" when I was 18. When three other lives are in the mix it isn't quite so easy.

Again, thank you for all the responses. I truly appreciate them.