I can absolutely identify with this sentiment.
Growing up, my family was decidedly
not a big "Disney" house. It wasn't that we
disliked it, or anything, it just wasn't that big a deal for us. Heck, I was (and still am) a Looney Tunes guy, love the old Bugs Bunny/Daffy Duck/Elmer Fudd stuff - primarily because it was so ingeniously written to include humor that adults could appreciate while still making kids (of all ages) giggle.
We saw a few Disney movies over the years, but it was certainly no overarching priority. The only real Disney stuff I had as a kid was Disney Pooh bear my mom made for me (back when mom's actually sewed), and I still have that bear to this day! VCR's didn't exist when I was a kid, so that was a non-factor.
We visited
Disneyland in California a few times, but my folks never really considered a WDW visit seriously primarily because when I was growing up the routes there from here were more than my dad wanted to undertake driving (of course, that was 40 years ago). And when WDW opened with just Magic Kingdom originally, there was much less there compelling a visit.
We decided to take our kids the first time back in '01, and we had a marvelous time. We were fractionally more "Disneyfied" than I was growing up, but largely the same general influence it had when I was growing up. But spending a week there allowed me pretty quickly to "get" what it was go to WDW. Standing there at the entrance to MK just in front of the ol Mickey/Walt statue, and I felt like I was about eight again, thinking "good grief, I did this?? COOL!"
For reasons I can't fathom, we waited
seven years to go back. This time, we took my mom, and even though she broke her foot about two weeks before we left, she still got hooked on WDW. She loved Epcot. MK. Soarin'. Napoleons at the French Patisserie. All. Of. It. She surely wasn't Disney immersed growing up, but she was practically in tears with excitement when we told her we had decided to chalk up the expense
one more time for a Disney trip before our oldest was out of high school. So even my mom, 77 years strong, is like the OP.
I think its just the notion of taking a few days from your day-to-day life and allowing yourself to just be
catered to with the flight of whimsy that very much is Disney in general and WDW in particular. WDW still tries very hard to reach that "catering" goal, to make each day fun, special, memorable, enjoyable, and sometimes even spectacular. Not every day is perfect, of course, there are bumps and hiccups, but what human experience doesn't. And, yeah, it comes with an expense, but hey, all vacations do
