I understand how everyone feels. I usually make up a budget WAY in advance and then wait for airline specials. I know how much I am willing to pay for airfare and, unless I have FFM, I don't plan a trip until my airfare is set. (Being from Hawaii, we don't have the option of driving, so it's always expensive for us to just leave the state!)
But then once the air reservations are made, I have to start picking hotels and planning the itinerary. THAT'S where I start to stress!
Unless I'm willing to stop saving for retirement, DS college fund, or stop eating

, there's only so much I can save every month.
So I work with a fixed budget (where I usually ovebudget for everything), and then cut back on vacation expenses from there. So I consider staying at a cheaper hotel or one that includes breakfast, or we plan a day off in the middle of the trip to hit the Disney outlet to do our souvenier shopping, or find some other expense to cut back on.
Sometimes I think all my savings go to my
Disney vacations!
This year, I am also trying to build my emergency fund back up and I'm trying to save for a couple for big vacations in the next 5 years, so I've really got my work cut out for me.
But if I didn't have something fun to look forward to, I would not be motivated to save at all, I suppose.
Good luck. You'll make it!
