Anyone’s college kid have a long commute?

I cant imagine commuting 3 hours every day for school. My last 2 years I commuted from home and it was about 35 mins each way. I think anything more than 90 mins is more than I would have wanted to do or wanted my kid to do.

Currently our son is in school out of state 2 hours away....no way would we have ever considered having him drive. He looked at another school about 50 mins north of us and had he gone there, he would have definitely lived on campus.

I will also say, unless the cost savings is great -- you miss out on a LOT of the college experience (good and bad) by living at home.
 
I think it depends on your son, as well as what other options are feasible.

For me, the opportunity to live away from home and learn to be more independent was huge for me. I was a homebody before I left for school, and "young" for my age. My college was about two hours from where I grew up, which gave me the option to go home occasionally but, since I didn't have my own car, not often. This encouraged me to get involved on campus and create my own environment where I was comfortable. I personally think it's important for young adults to have the opportunity to live away from home when possible, even if temporarily.

It does sound like this is all taking place in a large city (NYC, perhaps?) where as the crow flies, the distance is not large but as the mass transit runs, it is. In that case, I get not wanting to invest in different living arrangements. I do think the commute could be challenging, though.
 
We had three kids in college at the same time so living on campus was not an option financially.
They commuted an hour each way.
Most semesters, they were able to get their classes scheduled 3-4 days a week and opted for online in the few instances that it was available to them.
 
In the US, people use college and university interchangeably. Technically, a college is for undergraduate education. A university is for both undergrad and graduate programs.

Some colleges in NY now offer a few masters level programs, muddying the definitions further.
 

I'm curious, is what you call "college" we call "University"? And of so, is it more typical to study from home or, as we do it, the student travels to the University of their choice and stays in a Halls of Residence, which can vary from sharing bathrooms and having meals laid on to having en suites with communal areas and kitchens? Mature students can apply for apartments :)

There isn't necessarily any kind of strict line. One used to think of a "college" as a place that generally only issued baccaulaerate degrees or perhaps associate (two year) degrees, but there's hard and fast rule. A "University" would generally grant masters and possibly doctorates. However, there are large schools such as College of William & Mary or Boston College that grant doctorates.

In any case it's just a name. At least in the United States four-year degree granting postsecondary institutions can be called "university", "college", "institute", "academy", etc.

There are a couple of universities in the University of California system that have "residential colleges" similar to how Oxford/Cambridge operate - UC Santa Cruz and UC San Diego. I don't quite understand how it all works though.
 
And how do degrees work in America? Over here you get qualified in a certain subject, which could be anything from Physics to Sports Science with Geography (!)

You can score a First, Higher or Lower Second or a Tertiary degree - most get a second of some sort. Those degrees are further split depending on the TYPE of degree. Sciences will score you a Bachelor of Science (BSc), Arts will score you a Bachelor of Arts (BA) and there are others (such as an LLC for law). You can continue your studying and get a Masters degree for an extra year (MSc, MA, etc), then we have Master of Business Administration, PhD, MD and so on.

Complex, no?

I never quite understood all the stuff about divisions and classifications. Is that what you're bringing up?

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/British_undergraduate_degree_classification

There might be "honors" graduation - called "cum laude", "magna cum laude", or "summa cum laude" - but every school has its own method of determining who graduates with honors. There's a joke at certain schools that they hand out honors like candy. For instance, Harvard at one time graduated over 90% of each graduating class with honors.

At least in the United states, the academic discipline would be called the major. There are general majors, such as general science, but they can often be more specific such as mechanical engineering or physics. It's also possible to get an academic minor. One would have to meet class/grade requirements and also meet a major requirement. I actually have one myself.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Minor_(academic)

And yes - it's a baccalaureate degree, then masters, then doctorate. There's no hard and fast rule for the abbreviations though. At my school (UC Berkeley) a bachelor of science was a "BS" while a bachelor of arts was an "AB" - although they seemed to have changed it to a "BA" recently. And it got really odd because several hard science departments awarded the BA/MA degree, such as computer/life/physical sciences. I've heard of some specific nomenclature, such as EdD for a doctorate in education.

Massachusetts Institute of Technology has a really oddball set of abbreviations. I don't know of another place that has a "Doctor of Science" degree.

https://web.mit.edu/facts/degrees.html
DEGREES OFFERED
Bachelor of Science (SB)
Master of Architecture (MArch)
Master of Applied Science (MASc)
Master of Business Administration (MBA)
Master of Business Analytics (MBAn)
Master in City Planning (MCP)
Master of Engineering (MEng)
Master of Finance (MFin)
Master of Science (SM)
Engineer (each degree designates the field in which it is awarded)
Doctor of Philosophy (PhD)
Doctor of Science (ScD)​
 
@bcla - There are several other institutes of higher learning that offer a ScD; Columbia U is one I can think of off the top of my head although I agree it's rare.
 
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There are a couple of universities in the University of California system that have "residential colleges" similar to how Oxford/Cambridge operate - UC Santa Cruz and UC San Diego. I don't quite understand how it all works though.

My daughter graduated from UCSC in June. There are ten residential colleges. All undergraduate students are affiliated with one of the colleges whether they live on campus or commute. Some general requirement courses, regardless of major, are taken with fellow students within a college. Each college has some activities and events that are exclusive to that college.

There are ten colleges, ranging in size from about 500 to 1500 students, and there were ten graduation ceremonies!!

Eight colleges are named for certain people, but the university got bored and named the most recent to open as College Nine and College Ten.
 
I suppose it depends on the city and the time of day, but generally I wouldn't assume that time would be available for study. You're assuming you'd have a seat and enough personal space to juggle a textbook and/or notebook.

Yes, I guess it would depend on where you live and are traveling. Were I at a starting point for a subway or bus line in my area I'd be sure I'd get a seat

Sometimes taking a train slightly earlier or slightly later can make all the difference in how packed the train is. I've found that most people want to get in just before 9am, so they all pack themselves in like sardines on a few trains that will get them into work between 1-20 minutes ahead of time. A few times I had to get in earlier to class to talk to the professor and when I took a train that got me in about half an hour before class, those trains were only a third full in comparison. :eek: Definitely lots of seats to choose from that one could then snooze on the way in.

Also, I've found by being accidentally late, that the trains that get one in right after 9am are also less full. I remember some fellow students would always arrive to class late, quietly slip in & sit in the back, and look over at their neighbors book to see what page we were on and flip their book open. It's rare that the teacher says extremely crucial stuff right at the start of class, or that someone can't catch someone up that's a little late. Maybe those students realized being on a train way slightly late is way more civilized? :scratchin

How much space does one need to open a textbook? People just open & read them in their laps. Same with a laptop. People don't spread their stuff out like on a plane.

You're also assuming that level of distraction wouldn't make you a target for theft.

as a native NYCer I'm pretty aware of my surroundings on many levels [. . .] Knock on wood, I've never been robbed but have been burglarized twice in 6 decades).

People snooze or read on their expensive Kindles or iPhones all the time here. None are an uncommon occurrence. I have even seen a few people working or opening up their laptops right on the trains. I also see people a the ends of a car sitting right on the floor to sit or read. When on a really packed train, it's actually hard to rob people and quickly sneak away. It's not the same as being on a packed subway platform where people can brush by and pickpocket someone. On a train, the robber HAS to come up right next to you in order to rob you or be sitting next to you. It's more obvious if they are acting suspiciously.

Even being distracted or focused on something, as NYCgrrl said, one has to be aware of one's surroundings. If someone is moving their hand right by your side, you look to see what their hand is doing. Are they reaching for your phone or wallet? Usually they are reaching for their own phone. One should be lightly snoozing, not be dead to the world. And one should always put their stuff, especially laptops in a nondescript, cheap looking bag, (not a "laptop bag") that is zipped closed and place it in between one's feet, where you can feel someone reaching for it. Not next to you, where someone can reach inside or snag it. I gave up on buying nice, expensive looking handbags or luggage long ago. I don't want to look like an expensive target.
 













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