pretty sure that telling her on AIM/MSN to 'suck an egg' won't really solve anything.
but that's just from personal experience.
you actually have to tell them whats bothering you, otherwise it will not stop.
and i kinda agree with jenny. i mean there's not a specific post count but if all of a sudden your first post is bashing someone, there is no right to that whatsoever.
at all.