anybody here a spinster?

[katerkat]

I barely dated in high school and college - my husband is, in fact, my first true boyfriend. We started dating shortly after I turned 20. In November, it'll be 6 years and we have a wonderful little munchkin.

 

[shortbun]

"A woman NEEDS a man like a fish needs a bicycle" But...if you find you one you really want, get him!

That's my advice and I'm stickin' to it.

 

[willis37862]

"A woman NEEDS a man like a fish needs a bicycle" But...if you find you one you really want, get him!

That's my advice and I'm stickin' to it.

That's funny. I didnt find the one I wanted till I was 24. We meant in March, started dating in July and were married on December 1rst. Less than one year of knowing eachother. And I wouldn't change it for anything. So if you want to find someone keeping looking but don't put your life on hold till you find that person. I did a lot of stuff I couldn't do now (traveling whenever I wanted). I have friends who dont want to get married and they are very happy. I think you just have to make the best out of your situation. The ones that aren't happy are the ones obessesed with finding the "perfect" one.

 

[MrsNick]

Funny, I felt that way, too, until I met my DH.