Anybody ever hate their best friend at a point???

[imabrat]

I cant stand mine right now.Apparently she doesn't like the music i like so she goes and tells her parents who tell my parents that the songs i listen to are about 'death' and 'depression' ,yet shes never even heard the music i listen to.I have no idea what shes up to.



anybody ever have this happen to them???

 

[Guitar girl]

not the same thing but this girl i was friends with or i thought we were friend stole 15$ from me

 

[KlInger]

what music do you listen to??

 

[angel_of_music]

yea, im really mad att my friend right now and i'm totally ignoring her because she bullies me and doesn't respect what i like. i like broadway music, so i was listening to it on my ipod and she just takes one of the ear pieces out of my ear and gave me funny faces like i was listening to something out of this world!

 

[Tink3rb3ll]

Once I moved, my friend started telling her mom that I never talk to her anymore. She tells her that she always call and that I never call back, which is completely untrue. Nobody needs friends like that.

 

[yoyo93]

I was once a friend with the huge brat, she used me and Arielfn as back up friends when the popular group ignored her (not to be lableing or any thing) she said the rudest things behind everyones backs.... and more stuff like that, then a few days ago she called me and Elyse, PreModonas!!!!!!

 

[cinderelly76]

Once my BFF was mad @ me cause I didn't say hi to her at a dance when i was with another friend but I did we fough tfor about a month

 

[ann-e-mator]

My best friend from high school (not to be confused with my best friend whom I have known my whole life) and I aren't even best friends anymore. She turned into something she's not, and got new friends, and totally ignored me until she sat next to me in Modern World this year, and then she got mad because my ex and I got back together, and stopped talking to me again. So now we are just "aquaintances"

 

[goofyandplutoluver]

anyone who is rude and bullies you is not your friend

 

[keypooh90]

Nope...never..well actually yes. We have know each other since we were babies, and in like second grade we fought over everything.

 

[Briarprincess]

Actually, quite often. We've known each other since 1st grade and were never really close until high school. She had been best friends with my best friends but then she supposedly said some things about them, not even behind their backs (it was about shopping for clothes at Walmart or whatever and they took offense when she meant nothing by it). Freshmen year we'd talk and hang out once in a while but Soph. year we were joined at the hip. We did EVERYTHING together. Stayed friends the whole year and went away with her parents for a weekend. Junior year was horrible. We fought like mad because she decided to do drugs, drink and sleep with random people (not just guys either). I tried to convince her that what she was doing wasn't going to help her get into Design School (her dream), but she said I was "controlling her" like her parents tried. She then started dating one of the girls I had become friends with who had been broke up with my best friend at the time to do so. I stopped talking to her, thinking she'd get the clue that as long as she was on that path, I wasn't following her or helping her. I stayed friends with her girlfriend though, because I still wanted to make sure she was ok. Senior year, we ended up in the same class for English first half, and we started talking again. Right before her 18th birthday, her parents went nuts on her and said that if she didn't break up with her girlfriend they'd kick her out. So New Years day (the day after her birthday) she moved in with her aunt and uncle about half an hour away. Kept dating the girl. THey decided they wanted to have a kid, so she started sleeping around again to get pregnant. Happened but she had a miscarriage. Then she decided she was interested in her girlfriends best friend and they started hanging outand told like everyone but me. And that's when I stopped talking to her for good (or so I thought) when she decided to lie and keep things from me when I had tried to be there for her (She was going to move in with me before her aunt and uncle offered because my mom and I both think her parents are wrong for treating her like they did because of who she was dating). Went through to the end of Senior year not talking. She randomly found me one day about a week before graduation and we hung out for a bit, but not long. Then once more in August. Then I didn't hear from her until December when she told me she was living with her grandparents to help take care of her grandmother, had broken up with the girlfriend right after we had last hung out, and that she was back with the boyfriend she had dated Sophmore year (they were amazing together. Swore they should have stayed together even then) and that they wanted to have a baby. Two weeks later she calls me to hang out and has "good news" and tells me she's pregnant.
*7 months later, she's due in August and I haven't heard a word from her since end of May.

Sorry it was long. Don't think anyone has ever known the whole story behind us actually.

 

[Spear]

*Reads some of the things people are mad about in disgust*

I'm not going to mention names, but with some of you, if you are going to stop talking to someone over that....well, that's just pathetic.

As for me, I walk a fine line with the word , "friend". The big three I have right now I guess you could say, I would call them all my friends, for now, but I wouldn't trust them with anything. It takes a lot for me to trust someone. I just don't feel humans in general can be trusted. I just basically need to know where I stand with someone before I would actually call them my "friends", and mean it. For example, out of that three, one has owed me money for some time now, another has never counted me as one of his best friends for the time I've known him, and the third is turning into something he has hated for the time I've known him. They are all good people, I just don't know if I can rely on them to stand by me if I get into some sort of trouble or something.

Late.

 

[yoyo93]

*Reads some of the things people are mad about in disgust*

I'm not going to mention names, but with some of you, if you are going to stop talking to someone over that....well, that's just pathetic.

If one of them is me go ahead say my name

 

[Spear]

If one of them is me go ahead say my name

It's not. Your's I can see.

Late.

 

[liplocked murder]

I don't have many friends where I live because they all graduated or live in another town.

 

[xCourxCorex]

This one time, my best friend, she gave my a bloody lip. But I love her

 

[setHEARTStoDESTRUCT]

Eh, I don't know. I've been EXTREMELY angry with her, but I've never hated her, because I love her to death & I could never EVER hate her, becase she's the only person I trust with my life.

 

[poohbear926]

i think at sum point in every1s life u get mad at a best friend or friend and do stupid things like for instince:

When i was like in 2rd grade me n my then best friend usta b really close but we had different friends becuz she was left behind in 1st grade so 1 day i was hanging out with my "friends" if u could even call them that n they had a peice of candy that i wanted they told me if u go over 2 ur friend n tell her u hate her becuz she watches barney or w.e we would give u the candy n of course stupid me did n i still didnt get the candy so i called my friend later that nite n explained 2 her what was up and she 4gave me.. we were kool again hey i was lil i didnt know ne better and u know how lil kids LOVE candy haha so ne who then 4 sum reason once i got into 4th grade we stoped talkin and then she switched skewls in 6th grade 2 go 2 a better skewl becuz our principal had opened up his own skewl so she went there a few months later i end up in that skewl and me n the girl become really close again start hanging out and now that shes in high skewl like we dont talk at all and she totally hates me but thats ok becuz she has really changed alot and not 4 the better so i wouldnt wanna b friends with her now ne wayz . she talks bout ppl bhind there baks n is such a hipacrit so w.e n now that my BEST BEST friend/ sister .. (i call her my sister becuz ive known her my WHOLE life and i know the whole family n viversia) is friends with the girl n i keep tellin her watch ur bak n make new friends becuz shes always *****in 2 me bout things this girl does and says and how she cant stand her or w.e n im tired of this girl hurtin my friend so ya know with me being 7 months older then her i gotta watch out 4 her n protect her and there r times i get mad at her but i could never hate her shes always there 4 me when i need her when no1 else is even if we argue sumtimes bout things we dont think is rite we still got each others baks no matter what

i know with me ive gotten mad at alot of my friends ALOT of times becuz we always make plans 2 hang out n they leave me hanging n all this other stuff and it just pisses me off and makes me think if these ppl really r my friends and sumtimes ill talk 2 them later and they'll come up with sum excuse but we talk it over n i 4give them n then it happens again .. i think i only really have 5 honestly good friends .... and not all them like i same music im into or movies or stuff like that but we know that each of us have different tastes and everything and we respect that.. sum times we'll argue over things but it doesnt last that long n we laugh and realize how stupid it was and 4give each other..

and i totally 4get the point of all this that i was sayin but there ya go maybe sum1 will get the point out of it haha

 

[KlInger]

um... what? ( idiot)

 

[nightmareb4xmas]

of course...at some point...but this year, because of a stupid and really long story and fight, i lost a friend who i was best friends with before that supid and really long story and fight. we hate eachother now. and to make things worse, while hating eachother, we liked the same guy. i got over him though, since he was going to a different school and liked this other girl who went to another school, but my ex-best frined STILL likes him. he's a loser anyway, currently, he's in a relationship with his 3rd girlfriend of the past 4 months so far...which is pretty bad. she also got p.o'ed at me when that same boy asked me to dance with him at our basketball banquet. that was her chance for her "sweet revenge," just because she was mad he asked me to dance and nobody else. (obviously not her, lol) but as we all know here, i'm the one who really knows what sweet revenge is all about...lol...but soon after, i had almost everyone in our 4th 5th 6th 7th and 8th grades against her and on my side. because nobody liked her to begin with, and shes just plain evil and rude. she only had two other girls on her side. that was a big chaos as well. she made up words, like "cheris" and "roo" and would alays say them to me and one of my best friends. we ignored it and later found their "mini dictionary" of all the words they made up and their crude meanings. we reported it and she got in MAJOR trouble. but...i was called into the principal's office 42 times this year. (really, i actually counted) most times (haha most times,) involving her. all im saysing is that things can really escalte for stupid and small reasons.