Mine would be too old for me to offer much support for anyone adopting now, but know that my best wishes are with you and all of your little ones. I had two biological children, but I had always wanted to adopt. We adopted a baby boy from Korea, and he is now 18. The process took about 16 months, and we thought it would never happen, but the day finally did come. He was so, so, so cute, and got lots of attention since he looked "different". In this area, foreign adoption wasn't too common back then, but I do see it a little more these days. I love being out at a store and seeing a mom with her little child/ren of Asian descent. I always want to talk to them and hear their story, but I never do speak. I'm too introverted to speak to a stranger, and although I was fine with people approaching me about my son, I don't know how someone else might feel. Adoption is a wonderful choice for so many as they create their families, and I hope everything goes well for all of you as you raise your children. If you haven't approached the teenage years yet, take heart. They are a bit rocky. No matter how much you love them and get along with them, the time does come when they don't think you are particularly wise or cool any more, and it's not so fun. But the road does eventually smooth out, and on the other side of it, you get some pretty awesome young adults that you love and respect on a new level. The great thing is, they go back to thinking you're fairly wise and pretty cool again! I always enjoy hearing other stories of adoption, since it is so close to my heart, so I will look forward to hearing all of yours.