Another Stupid Vent Thread

[Cinderelli16]

Today hasn't been all that great. I had my friend stay the night last night, which I knew wouldn't be a good idea, but my parents said I needed to work things out with her, and it would be good for the both of us. So everything was great last night, we took pictures, talked about things, and just had a fun time. But then today, she decided that she was going to invite a boy over to MY house, without my consent, or my parents. I had NO clue that she even invited him over, and when I seen him walk into my backyard, I had a heart attack. In my house there is a strict rule about having boys over while my parents are gone, and she knew about those rules. But she decided to do whatever she wanted to do. So I told her, that he needs to leave NOW, and he's not allowed to be over. But she didn't listen to me, and then one of my neighbors called my house, and asked who was over. My friend told me not to worry about, and that she gets away with this kind of stuff all the time. But I was not comfortable with him being at my house, without my parents knowing. So I called my mom, and was totally honest about what just happened, and surprisingly she wasn't mad (at me). And now she's mad at me, because I made her leave, and I told my mom. Ugh! I'm just so mad that she would do that to me! Why didn't she say anything?
Okay vent is over, I just had to get that out.

 

[KidGoofy]

Well, I would be mad too if my parents had a rule about it...but mostly because I hate being in trouble.

 

[JulielovesDisney]

You did the right thing with telling your mom.
But it might be time to go separate ways with your friend. She obviously doesn't value you as a friend anymore if she's going behind your back to invite a boy over to your house.

 

[PosessedEeyore]

You did the right thing with telling your mom.
But it might be time to go separate ways with your friend. She obviously doesn't value you as a friend anymore if she's going behind your back to invite a boy over to your house.

agreed.

shes not a good friend if she doesnt follow ur house rules.

 

[::Snow_White::]

You did the right thing with telling your mom.
But it might be time to go separate ways with your friend. She obviously doesn't value you as a friend anymore if she's going behind your back to invite a boy over to your house.

I agree.

I'd be mad too if my friend didn't respect the rules.

 

[TinkPinkPoem]

You did the right thing with telling your mom.
But it might be time to go separate ways with your friend. She obviously doesn't value you as a friend anymore if she's going behind your back to invite a boy over to your house.

I totally agree.

But oh my what a nosey neighbour!

 

[JulielovesDisney]

I totally agree.

But oh my what a nosey neighbour!

Haha i was thinking that too. my neighbors don't give a rats behind about me. But atleast you have neighbors who care about you and are watching out for you. That's nice to know.

 

[TinkPinkPoem]

Haha i was thinking that too. my neighbors don't give a rats behind about me. But atleast you have neighbors who care about you and are watching out for you. That's nice to know.

Yeah it's lovely to have neighbours to care for you, we are lucky to have such neighbours too.

But to call to check who is over? Erm, no.

 

[Tinkerbell424]

You did the right thing.
If your friend is mad at you for that, then she's not a friend.

 

[CrazySteph]

oh my goodness! yeah I agree with Julie. she was obviously not a good friend to you and you really did do the right thing by telling your mom. Honest is always the best thing! but your friend there, doesn't sound like a friend.

 

[Cinderelli16]

Yeah, I just don't understand what was going through her mind when she decided to invite him over. I totally flipped a switch on her, when it all happened. She asked me why I told my mom, I mean seriously why wouldn't I tell my mom? I'm not the type of girl to hide things from my parents, and idk it just really hurt my feelings that she would try to take all trust away between my and my parents. I've had problems with her before, and she's stabbed me in the bach so many times, and for some dumb reason I always forgave her. But it's NOT gonna happen this time, I'm DONE!

 

[JulielovesDisney]

Good for you! You'll be better off without her causing drama in your life. People like her aren't worth the trouble.

 

[diva122094]

I would call my mom too if i had a rule of not having boys over.
I think that is my rule anyway.

 

[VolleyballQt07]

I had to do the same thing with my "best friend" a few weeks ago. We were having some issues with our friendship and my relationship with my boyfriend. She spent the night, we went to a movie, talked about the issue, had a great time, and thought everything was fixed. Next morning she wakes up and decideds everything isn't all right and she wouldn't talk to me. She drives me crazy! This may sound bad but she has screwed so many things up that I don't know if I want to be friends with her anymore. The only reason I'm friends with her is for my boyfriend's sake.
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Anyways, I really hope things get worked out between you and your friend. She really doesn't sound like a true friend.....no offense. If you ever need to talk PM me. I kinda understand your problem and am sorta going through the same thing so if you ever need to talk I'm here! :]