Another cat loss

I am so sorry about your kitty. He was indeed a beautiful cat. We lost our 2 elder cats during this dreadful pandemic, but my husband was truly gutted when we lost our Chopper to cancer when he was only 2 years old. Perhaps it is grief, or madness, but we have since adopted 3 boys these past 12 months. Babu is my profile pic, my daughter modified his picture in a way I find funny. Again, I'm so sorry :(
 
RIP Chester, you were truly loved. 3 years ago I too lost 2 cats within a short time of each other. First was one I I had for about 5 years. I got her from a friend who could not control her always attacking their youngest at the ankles. Rather than see her go to a shelter I took her in even though I already had another rescue, She did settle in to my family and was so sweet. I found her in her bed one morning when she did not greet me for breakfast one day. She passed in her sleep. No signs of illness just gone. My 2nd buddy, missed her terribly and I was not ready to get another cat at that time. After a bit he just would not eat regularly and look for his buddy. I eventually had to feed him with a syringe as I was so worried. On Christmas morning he passed in my arms. I was a wreck. They do bond so much with their kitty siblings. I was so crushed my DH took me to a local rescue and got me another angel in need. My Mr. Flynn who was tossed out the door by an elderly man's family. When he went to the hospital as they did not want to care for his cats. After trapping them they were put up for adoption. He is not the perfect kitty, but I love him so much. We truly needed each other. :cat:
 
What a beautiful boy. I am so sorry for your loss. I can’t imagine the shock given his young age. I am a cat person through and through and know the pain in the grief of losing a kitty - especially one with whom you had such a special bond. Take heart in knowing you gave him a beautiful life. You rescued him and loved him and gave him all he could ever want in his 6 short years. I am sending you peace and hugs.
 

I'm so sorry for your loss! We are a cat family, and I agree that it never gets an easier when one dies. We've never had a sudden death, but we've had to make some very tough decisions with the 3 we've had to euthanize. I'm not sure I can even go through it again - dreading that Pi-cat will need me to make that decision again soon. And my daughter's cat Mufasa? He better live to be the oldest cat in the world because he is that important to her! (((hugs)))
 
I’m so sad to hear about this. We had to put our 5yo cat down a few years ago (litter mate to our remaining cat). It was devastating. She was so young and so sweet.

The pain will subside but the memories will last a lifetime.
 
Many thanks for the kind words everyone. I've read every post and take comfort in the empathy offered.

We lost 2 cats in quick succession (just over 2 months apart) back in 2014/2015. One had chylothorax at age 7, a rare condition that's almost always fatal. We were just getting over that when our 9 year old died abruptly of a stroke. Chester was our remedy to those losses. I told my daughter today that this is so hard because it came out of nowhere. I had never had to envision our house without him. Not even for a moment. He was the clown of the house, constantly making us laugh.

We'll get more cats. Our poor single cat that's left isn't used to such constant condition. I'm thinking a sibling pair, but not right away. I need some time.
 
Yes, I understand the guilt but you are right that there was nothing that could have prevented it. Simba passed away almost eleven years ago and I still remember that day, so heartbreaking. My husband even tried giving him CPR but it was all over in a minute, happened so fast. I scooped him up and sped to the nearest vet, hoping they could perform a miracle. I knew he was already gone though. It's just going to take time-you could do what I did. I think I waited a month and then adopted three kitties from my local SPCA. I am officially a crazy cat lady.
I tried giving CPR but knew it was unlikely to help. I checked his mouth and throat for foreign objects and found nothing. It was around 9:15 PM, so no vet office even close by to try to race him to.

The house feels pretty empty with just one cat. We'll give it some time then will be open to a couple others. We will need to liven the place up again. But my daughter is heading back to college next week so I'll want to wait until she has some time at home to be part of it.
I’m so so sorry. That is so awful. It could have been cardio myopathy. It’s more common in cats than dogs & most likely what happened. It happened to one of my dad’s cats who was only 3. He was a beautiful cat & such a cute kitten. 😔
I have been told that it's often a heart issue when this happens at this age. I think that's a possibility. I can't even imagine having it happen at age 3. My goodness.
So sorry for your loss. We rescue quite a few cats but losing a best buddy is the worst. I can't say it gets easier, just the pain becomes a little less frequent and omnipresent. Just know that I've sent 5 friends to the rainbow bridge in the past 15 months or so that will keep Chester good company.

All that being said, hang in there. I'm sure Chester is grateful for the amazing life he had and is looking down on you from above. And, I have a feeling he'll be sending you a new friend soon (whether you want him/her or not. ;))
I'm so sorry. That's a lot of loss.
 
I am so sorry about your kitty. He was indeed a beautiful cat. We lost our 2 elder cats during this dreadful pandemic, but my husband was truly gutted when we lost our Chopper to cancer when he was only 2 years old. Perhaps it is grief, or madness, but we have since adopted 3 boys these past 12 months. Babu is my profile pic, my daughter modified his picture in a way I find funny. Again, I'm so sorry :(
I've complained many times about how awful this pandemic has been for accessing vet care. Our vet of more than 3 decades has become so much harder to access. When we brought Chester in Thursday to be cremated, it would have been nice to chat with him, but alas, nobody gets to go in with them these days. I think it might be time to find a new office.

Your Babu is adorable! Good for you creating more happy pet memories! I'm sure we'll get there. And I'm sure you know that will just take some time. We had a sibling pair many years ago that were very special to us and I'd like to give that a try again.
RIP Chester, you were truly loved. 3 years ago I too lost 2 cats within a short time of each other. First was one I I had for about 5 years. I got her from a friend who could not control her always attacking their youngest at the ankles. Rather than see her go to a shelter I took her in even though I already had another rescue, She did settle in to my family and was so sweet. I found her in her bed one morning when she did not greet me for breakfast one day. She passed in her sleep. No signs of illness just gone. My 2nd buddy, missed her terribly and I was not ready to get another cat at that time. After a bit he just would not eat regularly and look for his buddy. I eventually had to feed him with a syringe as I was so worried. On Christmas morning he passed in my arms. I was a wreck. They do bond so much with their kitty siblings. I was so crushed my DH took me to a local rescue and got me another angel in need. My Mr. Flynn who was tossed out the door by an elderly man's family. When he went to the hospital as they did not want to care for his cats. After trapping them they were put up for adoption. He is not the perfect kitty, but I love him so much. We truly needed each other. :cat:
That's rough. I already mentioned we lost 2 in short succession right before we got Chester. It's so hard. And so hard to wrap my head around after our calico lived to be almost 20. It's so easy to take for granted that they'll always be there.

What a blessing for your new cat to land in a loving home. The one cat we have left (a 12 year old tabby) is a rescue who had been left behind in an apartment for a month before she was discovered. She has had food insecurity issues since then and packed on the weight here, but I finally got the backbone to start limiting her intake a couple years ago and she's slimmed down to a healthier weight. I hope she sticks around for a long time.
I'm so sorry for your loss! We are a cat family, and I agree that it never gets an easier when one dies. We've never had a sudden death, but we've had to make some very tough decisions with the 3 we've had to euthanize. I'm not sure I can even go through it again - dreading that Pi-cat will need me to make that decision again soon. And my daughter's cat Mufasa? He better live to be the oldest cat in the world because he is that important to her! (((hugs)))
I hope Mufasa has many healthy years ahead. I begged the cat gods to let our calico last through my daughter leaving for college, and thankfully she did. She lasted until almost the end of her sophomore year when we finally decided she was ready.
 
This has been so hard. I can't even make sense of it. I'm sure I never will.

4 months ago we helped our 20 year old through the final stages of her life. We had a very long good-bye and chose the time we thought was right. It helped us a lot that we had 2 other cats to keep the house lively. It was sad but we all knew it was the right thing and it all just made sense.

This one has hit me so much harder. Chester was the life of the house. He was my buddy. He slept on me every night. I never sat down in the living room to watch anything without him settling onto my lap. He made us laugh. He was energetic and interactive. He was a remarkable cat. We've had a number of cats, but never one quite like him. We rescued him from a rural farm. Someone found a litter in a field and he was housed in a big dog crate with his litter mates while they awaited homes. He slept in the litter box. It took him a while to stop sleeping in the litter box when we brought him home. Here he is the day we brought him home in 2015.

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And here he is as the beautiful adult cat he grew into.

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We have no idea what happened. We found him dead on Wednesday evening. He was 6 1/2 years old. What a huge hole he has left in my heart.


I am so sorry, people dont understand how hard this is on your heart and soul unless you just have that love for animals
 
I am so sorry for your loss. He was a handsome guy. It is hard to lose a beloved furbaby.

We had to put our dog to sleep last month as he got very sick. He was almost 16. We miss him. It is hard.
 
I’m very sorry for your loss, he was a beautiful kitty! I am a vet, and it doesnt get easier with the loss of a pet. At his age and the sudden time frame, I would bet it was either cardiomyopathy or heartworm disease. I have seen it happen many times…they are normal one minute and gone the next. It’s very scary and upsetting for families if that happens at home.
 
So sorry for your loss. He was an adorable kitten and a handsome cat.

We'll get more cats. Our poor single cat that's left isn't used to such constant condition. I'm thinking a sibling pair, but not right away. I need some time.

I felt the same way when we lost our previous cat. I needed to wait until I wasn't just missing her specifically, but also missing "having a cat". When we finally went to get another, we ended up with two.
 
I’m very sorry for your loss, he was a beautiful kitty! I am a vet, and it doesnt get easier with the loss of a pet. At his age and the sudden time frame, I would bet it was either cardiomyopathy or heartworm disease. I have seen it happen many times…they are normal one minute and gone the next. It’s very scary and upsetting for families if that happens at home.
Thank you for posting. Not knowing is the hardest part, and it does help to hear that. It would be so helpful if we just knew what happened. Of course we won't. We were told the place that could do a necropsy was 2 hours away and we just weren't up to doing that.
 
Normally I'd respond to everyone, but just haven't had the mental energy. We got his remains back yesterday and buried him in the back yard with a couple of his favorite toys. He's still showing up in some of my dreams, but hopefully that will stop soon.

Thanks to everyone for their heartfelt sympathy and prayers.
 
I'm obviously late to this thread but I wanted to say I'm so very sorry for your loss :sad::sad: I think I may have missed you losing your other cat too (or at least I don't remember responding to a thread about it :o) so I'm equally as sorry (even as long life as your other cat had) for your other loss :(

I know all your pets are well-loved and feel loved, I don't know if that will be of any comfort to you right now grieving the losses but I know that to be true :grouphug:
 


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