ANOTHER Adventure in Autism (4/15) A Taste of What's to Come...

Pre-Trip #16:


The Dog Days of Summer



Did I just hear the front door slam? Yes, I’m sure that was the front door. Let me just put two paws up on the windowsill and see. Is she gone yet? Yes, I think she’s gone. The big metal box on wheels isn’t in the driveway anymore. I thought that human would never get off the DIS! Now all I have to do is jump up on this…..whoa!! Hey, this chair moves! I’d better just stand on my hind legs. Ah, that’s better! Now it’s my turn! Good thing she left this thing on…..

So, let me start by introducing myself. My name is Aimee, and if you haven’t already guessed, I am a dog. :dog: Kathy may have already mentioned me, but I want to make sure that all you DISers know just how important I am to this family! It’s been two years since I decided to adopt them and I honestly don’t think they could imagine life without ME!!
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My life began almost a little over three and a half years ago in Chester, N.J. I was born at the canine maternity center for The Seeing Eye, North America’s pioneer dog guide school, in Morristown, N.J. I don’t mean to boast, but I am told that I was bred for the qualities that would make a good Seeing Eye dog: intelligence, good health, moderate size, sound hips, and gentle temperament.

When I was about seven weeks old, I went to live with a volunteer puppy raiser. I got lots of love and was taught basic obedience. I was a very happy pup! At 18 months of age, I began a four-month course of training at The Seeing Eye with a sighted Seeing Eye instructor. Here I learned all the basic commands that I would be given in my job as a working guide dog. I also learned how to lead in a harness and stop at curbs. This was a lot of fun! My classmates and I practiced all over the streets of Morristown; progressing from the quiet side streets to the busier downtown area.

Finally, we were taught “intelligent disobedience”: to disregard a command if it would lead to danger. We learned to use our own initiative and judgment to carry out a command. At the end of my training, I took my final exam. My instructor wore a blindfold and walked with me through the streets of Morristown where auto and pedestrian traffic was at its heaviest. A training supervisor gave me my final evaluation.

And…….I flunked! :eek:

Oh no. I just couldn’t help myself. Whenever a stranger came too close to my instructor, I felt compelled to give them a little “woof.” I really didn’t think he should get that close. But, a good Seeing Eye dog can’t do that sort of thing. And so, my guide dog career was over before it had even begun. :sad2:

At first, they offered me the family that had raised me as a puppy. I would have liked to adopt them as my permanent family, but they were unavailable. So I remained in the kennel at the Seeing Eye for two months, waiting and hoping to find a nice family to adopt. I knew that the Seeing Eye would find a good home for me; but I secretly hoped that it would be with a family that had a special need. After all, I had been bred and trained to be of service, and I desperately wanted to fulfill my destiny.

Just when I was beginning to think that I would never find a family to adopt, my wish came true! One day my caretaker brought me to the Canine Adoption Service office. A man and woman were there to meet me. I was so excited! I scampered all around the office and sniffed at everything new. I sniffed the man and the woman. They both seemed nice; the man was firm and spoke with authority. Good, I could tell right away that he had experience with dogs. The woman, well, she seemed a bit unsure at first. :worried: She had an almost worried look until I settled down a bit and sat by her feet to be petted. Mmmm. She had a nice touch. I pegged her as the easy one right off, a marshmallow for sure. I could see lots of treats and tummy rubs in my future if I adopted her. :goodvibes

The three of us went for a walk together and I let them lead me around the grounds. It felt good to be out walking and I made sure that I showed off my best behavior. Even when we passed close to one of the gardeners tending the flowers, I resisted the urge to growl at him. That’s what did me in last time!

The man and woman talked quite a bit among themselves in hushed tones. I could feel that they were about to make an important decision. I had already made mine. I was definitely going to adopt them.

But then, they went away! :confused: Oh. Oh well, that’s too bad. I really liked them, too.

The next day, however, they were back again. This time, they had two children with them! This was even better! I like kids; kids love to play! The little girl laughed a lot and threw a tennis ball so I could fetch it and bring it back. I love that game! :dogdance:

But, I sensed that the little boy was different. I’m not sure why, but he seemed to be terrified of me. Every time I came near, he cried out and struggled to get away, even when the man kept his arms tight around him and tried to reassure him. So, I stayed closer to the others and let them pet and play with me. But, I kept my eye on him, nonetheless.

Something wasn’t quite right about that child; I just couldn’t quite put my paw on it. He didn’t interact with me the way the rest of the family did. In fact, he didn’t interact with the other people the way people usually do. He had sight, I could tell that. He didn’t need a guide dog. But yet, he seemed so isolated and alone, even among this family who obviously loved and cared for him.

The man took me by the leash and led me outside. Hurray! Another walk! But wait, what was this? This wasn’t the way to the walking path; we were headed to the parking lot….we were getting into a big metal box with wheels…together! I was going home with this family! They had agreed to become adopted! :cloud9:

Suddenly, it all made perfect sense. The meticulous care that went into my breeding, the months of obedience training, even the failure to pass my Seeing Eye exam. I was destined to be of service, but not as a guide dog. These people couldn’t bring just any dog into their home. They needed a gentle, intuitive, and well-trained dog like me who was bred to be of service. My life would be devoted to this family and their special little boy who seemed to need so much extra patience, understanding, and love.


I quickly acclimated myself to my new den, er, home. It wasn’t a large house, and it wasn’t, I was relieved to discover, an immaculately clean house. The woman didn’t seem to mind if I shed a few hairs or tracked in a bit of dirt. Thank goodness! I personally feel that a den should have that lived-in feel. But, I digress. Let me tell you about Billy. That, I discovered, was the boy’s name. I came to hear his name quite often throughout the day.


“Billy, take that out of your mouth!”
“Billy, sit down and eat.”
“Billy, sit down!
“Billy, please don’t stand in front of the TV, no one can see!”
“Billy, get down from there!”
“Billy, put your clothes back on!”


:confused3 Hadn’t these people ever heard of obedience training?

After a while, though, I came to realize that Billy was not being disobedient. It seems his brain doesn’t work the way other people’s do. Don’t ask me to explain how a human brain is supposed to work; I really don’t understand it that much. After all, I’m just a dog!

And so, I set about doing what a good dog does best: I gave my boy Billy lots and lots of unconditional love. When I realized that he was afraid of my teeth, I tried not to show them to him. When I realized that he got upset if I moved suddenly or ran toward him, I tried to slow down and move very deliberately when I was around him. When he got very excited and jumped around, and made lots of noise, I realized that he was not trying to play….that’s just the way he is. And so, I learned not to get excited and jump around, too, because that frightened him. When his mother or father showed him how to pet me and how to brush my coat, I sat very, very still.

Slowly, Billy became used to me and I became used to him. I slept in his room at night. That really helped him to be able to sleep alone in his own bed because he seems to need the presence of someone else in his room when he goes to sleep. He even came along for walks sometimes and held the leash.



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He had to be reminded of things quite often: to hold the leash tight and not just drop it, to keep a quiet mouth when his voice became too loud, to tell me to heel when I got a little distracted by an interesting scent. (Okay, it happens to the best of us!)

It felt a little strange, at first, to have him holding my leash while he alternated between waving his arms around and letting the leash go completely slack (or dropping it altogether), but as the months went by, it felt as though he gained more confidence. It took me two years, but I think that I have trained him to be a fairly good dog walker!

Sometimes when we are out walking, we get to talk to the neighbors and their kids. I don’t think that they would try to strike up a conversation with Billy and his mother or father if they were just out walking together and didn’t have me along. Billy gets to use some of his social skills that he learns in school, and his mother and father get to meet new people that they wouldn’t have met if I had not been there. We dogs are great for bringing people together. :grouphug:

Now, when we get home from a walk, Billy hangs up my leash and gives me a treat. He’s not afraid of my teeth anymore! He even tells me to “sit”, and when I sit he tells me that I’m a “good girl.” I like that. Sometimes, he even gives me extra treats when his mother, Kathy, isn’t looking. I really, really like that!

Have to watch out, though. I got carried away with the treats the other day and had a little tummy trouble….


Uh-oh! I hear the metal box on wheels pulling into the driveway. She’s back!! I have to sign off quickly now; it was nice barking with you!


Aimee paw:


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The best dog in the world!
 
Aimee, you have a wonderful writing style. You had me teary eyed. Billy is a wonderful boy and you are the luckiest dog in the world to have a family like that.
 
Hi Aimee! I'm so glad you shared your story! My son Alex is a lot like Billy and we have hoped to one day find him a dog as great as you! Right now he is very afraid of all animals, but maybe someday... What a great place The Seeing Eye sounds like - they found you a great family to adopt, even if you flunked their test. It sounds like you are just what Billy & his family needed.

Amy
 
Aimee, you should meet Phoebe. She is my Grandpa's dog. He is in a wheelchair and 87 years young and needed a friend just as sweet as you are. So we found Phoebe in the same situation as we have a close friend who trains Seeing Eye dogs and she introduced us.

Phoebe adopted my Grandpa (and parents) straight away. Don't think of it as "failing" your test. You were simply meant for a different work. Good job, Aimee!
 

Why do you always have to make me cry!?!?

I know! I swear I need to keep a box of kleenex near the computer for reading the trip reports.

Between gory toe pics, fashion accessories and talking dogs... you never know what you're gonna get when you open this thread!!! :duck:
 
Why do you always have to make me cry!?!?

I know!!!! Me too!!!! :guilty:

What a great installment! I loved hearing about Aimee. She sounds like a perfect addition to your family. And I loved the line about, "Billy put your clothes back on." Trey used to do that too-always when we had company-here he'd come running through the house buck naked. :rolleyes:
 
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The best dog in the world!

What a lovely story Kathy :grouphug:

Aimee is soooo cute :dogdance:

Marion said:
Between gory toe pics, fashion accessories and talking dogs... you never know what you're gonna get when you open this thread!!!

:rotfl2:

Yes but it is always such a fun read!!!!
 
I had responded to this earlier, but each time I clicked submit, I kept getting an error message saying the DIS did not exist!! :scared1: Anyway...


Aimee...

What a wonderful dog you are. I'm sure your family is just as happy to have you living with them as you are to be there. It sounds like you are a great addition to their family and a wonderful friend to Billy.


Kathy...

I really went back and forth whether to get a Baggallini or not. I opted not to and bought an Overland Express Donner instead. I really like the Donner, but I am afraid the strap is going to give me problems. I am kind of wishing I had gone with the Baggallini. :rolleyes: Hindsight.....

Michelle
 
Aww. Aimee, I'm so glad you found a family who cares for you, and that you could use your gifts for.
 
Hi Kathy! I got a baggallini - I can't wait for it to arrive. :cool1: I also got my husband a backpack - since we usually just carry around our kids bags if we need to use one. And of course I had to get something for the kids - I previously got Alex a rolling backpack from the LLBean outlet near us so I bought Zachary one from shoebuy. They just HAVE to have cute little rolling backpacks to pull through the airport... right? That's what I'm going to tell DH when he sees everything I bought... :laughing:
 
Blue: Uh, the technophobe here is waiting for her DH to download the new pix into the computer. :rolleyes1 Will post 'em ASAP.

Praisehisname: Twitterpated.

Goofster: Twitterpated and on thin ice!

SwansLoveDisney: "It's a gift, and a curse." - Adrian Monk

Marion: Like a box of choc-o-lates!

Linnie The Pooh: It's funny how little boys can strip in a split-second! Hey, come to think of it, so can their fathers! (See Twitterpated, above.)

mvzaul: Hey, I struck out with all three of my bags!!

DisMomAmy: Men are the hunters, women are the gatherers. You're fighting against millions of years of evolution! :laughing:


Kathy
 
paw: From Aimee,

mrsksomeday: Thank you for the compliments! Yes, I am one lucky dog!

DisMomAmy: Perhaps one day Alex will let some nice dog adopt him! :goodvibes

estherhead: Phoebe sounds like my kind of doggie!

mvazul: I am very happy with this pack!

Hedy: I think Billy was destined to be my boy. ::yes::

Woof Woof!!
 
Hi there. I just found your thread today. I have tears streaming down my face from your first post on this thread. What a delight to have your son embrace you and tell you that he loves you. I'm so happy for you.

I'm looking foward to reading your pre-TR.
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Aimee-
Woof Woof
The next time your family is in WDW ask them to get you a Mickey Mouse shaped dog tag to wear on your collar. We both have one with our names and phone number engraved on it in case we get lost. Our Mom got them at the pet store in Downtown Disney from a little machine in the back of the store. We're glad you found such a wonderful forever home with Billy.

Bark Bark
Bailey (9 yr old Rotti mix) & Riley (7 yr old Chocolate Lab)
 
Kathy I swore I was'nt going to get involved in reading another trippie and get ahead with our plans for our trip in 20 days but I spent hours tonight reading yours and I'm glad I did. We went twice during Joisey week and had a great time but now that cuts into DS14 football schedule. Our ds16 is autistic and can be a handful at times I can relate to some of your stories, my ds sometimes lines his tapes and dvds on the floor and they have to be in a certain order, now they are stacked in different places and the ones in the living room are'nt allowed in his bedroom and vice versa. I understand the OCD behaviors every year he knocks down the Christmas tree because he does'nt think it belongs there, he eventually gets used to it, so this year DH finally put a bracket up and screwed it to the windowsil after I picked it up 4 times, my friends at work get a kick out of this. One year he was losing his baby teeth they used to drive him crazy when they were lose so he would rip them out of his mouth, around Christmas I found 2 sitting on the branches of the tree like they were decorations. Sometimes they drive you nuts and other times they make you laugh. It's always nice to know that you're not the only one living this crazy life. Linda
 

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