And I Did It My Way! First Time Going SOLO! ***NEW! 7/17 p.7***

Wonders10

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I’m not going to lie folks. I don’t exactly have the best track record when it comes to finishing trip reports. In my few years on the DIS, I’ve started 3 trip reports and finished 0!!! :rolleyes1 And they aren’t even super long trips. Typically I think I just get in a Disney funk – you know, the Disney blues? And it just gets too darn sad to play on the DIS. And then when I finally do return to the boards, it just seems silly for me to finish, months later after no updates at all.

That’s my story and I’m sticking to it. :rolleyes1

So that brings me to this trip. I’m attempting for the 4th time to write a TR. And I’m not going to put a ton of pressure on myself to update it everyday and finish it in lightning speed. This may be a good strategy to actually completing a trippie. :idea: We shall see.

With all that said, I hope you will stick with me through my TR. So let’s get started. :yay:

The cast of this trip includes ME! And me alone. That’s right everyone. This here is a solo trip. My first actually. I may/probably will be meeting a friend of mine who lives in Orlando for a little bit, but for the most part it will be me and the world. I’m a native Floridian (born and currently living in Ft. Lauderdale). I’m a recent grad school graduate, waiting for my master’s degree in speech-language pathology to be conferred and all my certification/licensure paperwork to be completed. It took 3.5 years and I never thought I’d see this day.

The past few months have been a little, shall we say, stressfull. I started my last internship in January at a rehab hospital. Started out ok. I love hospitals and thought I would love working in one. Then one day I got a call that my dad had passed away. While I was driving home from work no less. He had been very sick with cancer, but still his death was actually rather sudden. We had had a distant relationship, however, losing a parent is definitely hard.

So while I was grieving on the inside (because I’m stubborn and hold all of my emotions inside), I was back at work, trying to be “little miss perfect intern”. Wasn’t happening apparently. More than once my supervisor gave me some not so comforting or kind words of “constructive criticism”. I began to dread getting up in the morning to head off to work. The “f” word was even thrown around. Personally, I think she was threatening me more than actually thinking I deserved to fail. Finally the semester ended. We sat down to discuss my grade. And I passed! :woohoo: At the end of the day, I did learn a lot and I’m a better SLP because of it, however I still do not agree with some of her supervisor strategies and the fact that she wanted me to be exactly like her which wasn’t going to happen. Yikes, bitter much?

Oops, getting ahead of myself a wee bit. Somewhere around March, aka “when I began hating life”, I stumbled across my annual pass while doing a little cleaning up. Hmm, it expires May 18. My mom and I already had a cruise booked in April to celebrate completing grad school so a huge trip to Disney really wasn’t in the cards. I knew I wasn’t going to be working in May since I would have just finished school.

:idea:

Yet the wheels in my head began to turn. I hate being alone, yet I love Disney world and felt like a few days in the world solo wouldn’t be so terrible. Ok, who am I kidding. I thought it would be freakin' awesome! My mom (who usually accompanies me on my Disney trips) was not really interested in heading back to Disney or the idea of boarding our dog again, so soon after our cruise. I have a good friend that lives in Orlando who I could spend some time with too.

One morning I arrived at work, aka hell, early. I most definitely was not going to go inside early so I decided I would call Disney reservations and see about booking a room. It went something like this:

Me: “Hi, I’m in danger of failing grad school, my supervisor hates me, I’m questioning everything I ever thought I wanted in a career and I want to hide under a rock for the next 7 weeks. Can you help me?”
Disney Cast Member: “Of course! We have Pop Century available with an AP discount.”
Me: “I’ll take it!”

And so it was that I booked 3 nights at Pop Century May 15-18th. Solo.

P.S. This TR will have pics, just not tonight. I'm trying to find some recent ones and have to upload them. Oh and I'm not so sure about the title of the TR, but it'll do for now.

Thanks for reading! :cutie:
 
Hi Shannon!!:wave2: I'm on board whether you finish or not. ;) I've been around through your "tough" year, so I want to be here when you celebrate with the Mouse. ::MickeyMo
 
I decided I would call Disney reservations and see about booking a room. It went something like this:

Me: “Hi, I’m in danger of failing grad school, my supervisor hates me, I’m questioning everything I ever thought I wanted in a career and I want to hide under a rock for the next 7 weeks. Can you help me?”
Disney Cast Member: “Of course! We have Pop Century available with an AP discount.”
Me: “I’ll take it!”
And so it was that I booked 3 nights at Pop Century May 15-18th. Solo.
Sounds like great Disney therapy,Shannon. Something I have benefited from on occasion.
And I didn't realize you were in Ft. Lauderdale. One of my best friends from college (and the only non family member allowed to join us at Disney) lives in Hollywood. If I ever go to visit her (we always just meet at WDW) I'd like to plan a meet with you too.
 

Shannon - Hi, I came over from the peep thread. I love the title of your TR, I wouldn't change it. Good first installment.:thumbsup2

Laura :flower3:
 
Hi Shannon!!!

I am joining and can't wait to here about your trip!
 
Hi Shannon!!:wave2: I'm on board whether you finish or not. ;) I've been around through your "tough" year, so I want to be here when you celebrate with the Mouse. ::MickeyMo

Thanks for sticking with me!

looking forward to reading more about your solo trip:surfweb:

I'm looking forward to experiencing it - thanks for reading!

Sounds like great Disney therapy,Shannon. Something I have benefited from on occasion.
And I didn't realize you were in Ft. Lauderdale. One of my best friends from college (and the only non family member allowed to join us at Disney) lives in Hollywood. If I ever go to visit her (we always just meet at WDW) I'd like to plan a meet with you too.

Yep I'm in Ft. Lauderdale - well actually I'm a little north of it, but most people won't know it and I think it's a bit safer, you know for all the weirdos. Definitely let me know if you are ever down here in my neck of the woods! And thanks for reading!

Shannon - Hi, I came over from the peep thread. I love the title of your TR, I wouldn't change it. Good first installment.:thumbsup2

Laura :flower3:

Thanks - I'm a Sinatra fan and the title just came to me! Thanks for reading - I'm working on a little update as we speak!

Hi Shannon!!!

I am joining and can't wait to here about your trip!

Thanks for stopping by - stay tuned for more!
 
Sort of a mini update here I suppose. First I want to say that I'm stealing this idea from Dawn (aka Punkin413) because I think it is super smart to make the font all pretty and big so that readers know what is actually part of the pre-TR/TR and what isn't. Don't you? So there ya go.

I can officially introduce myself now even though photobucket was not cooperating with me at all yesterday or today so the pictures at this point are minimal. Either way, let me introduce myself:

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That's me with a different hair do. Here is a more recent pic of me and my 5-year old nephew:

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Notice any changes?

So that is me. Why did I choose the 2nd picture, the one with my nephew in it? Well I'm glad you asked. On Friday or Saturday my mom said something along the lines of "are you really going by yourself?" referring to this solo trip to WDW. Well, yeah that was the plan. Of course I will be meeting my friend at some point but pretty much will be on my own. She says, "you should bring Owen" (nephew pictured above).

:confused3

You see, typically my niece and nephew are my travel companions, along with my mom of course. They have been to WDW more in their 5 and 7 years on this earth than most people have gone in their entire lives. My niece would never be allowed to miss 2 days of school (gasp! shock! horror at the thought!) but my nephew is only in pre-K so apparently it isn't important. Compared to 1st grade anyway.

I thought about bringing him. I honestly did. He's a fun kid! Definitely active but get him alone and he is sweet, smart, funny - just a great kid to be around. I stewed it over until yesterday.

Then I thought "what the heck are you doing, Shannon?!?!? You take these kids all the time to Disney World and now you want to take a 5 year old by yourself instead of traveling alone and doing whatever the heck you want? Are you insane?"

So I opted out of bringing my nephew on this trip. Of course he had no idea he was even up for the running as a travel mate, poor thing. So nobody's feelings were hurt.

So now you have officially met the cast! Me! :wave2:

 
Shannon, your nephew is a cutie. Kids see Disney in a whole different light :3dglasses but you DESERVE this trip by yourself. To do what YOU want to do. After all you survived the supervisor from HE double hockey sticks! I think you are precious in both pics.
 
Hi! :wave2: I followed your link from V's thread. I can't wait to read about your solo trip! :goodvibes
 
Shannon - I agree with aldisneygrl you deserve a trip by yourself. You go with them all the time. You need some me time.;) Love your hair blond by the way.
 
Shannon, your nephew is a cutie. Kids see Disney in a whole different light :3dglasses but you DESERVE this trip by yourself. To do what YOU want to do. After all you survived the supervisor from HE double hockey sticks! I think you are precious in both pics.

Thanks - I'm definitely glad that I decided not to ask him to tag a long (yikes, did that sound mean? Didn't mean it to) Thanks again for reading!

Shannon - I agree with aldisneygrl you deserve a trip by yourself. You go with them all the time. You need some me time.;) Love your hair blond by the way.

I'm getting super excited about going solo and I'm a teensy-weensy bit worried that I will like it so much that I will want all my disney trips to be solo. But that is a risk I'm willing to take :laughing: .

Thanks for the hair compliment. I had it blonde for so long but I was horrible with the maintainence for highlights so I decided to just color it back to my natural color. Currently I hate my hair because the color does not last long and I was out in the sun a lot recently so my hair is a much lighter shade of brown than I like it to be. It's also way longer than I want it to be. I was ready to cut it short - similar to the blond hair 'do, when my stylist suggested I just keep growing it for a few more months and donate it to locks of love. 3 months isn't that long I suppose so that's what I'm doing and I cannot wait to be able to chop it off again!

Oh and thanks for reading!

Hi! :wave2: I followed your link from V's thread. I can't wait to read about your solo trip! :goodvibes

Hi there! Thanks for stopping by! Get comfy and stay awhile! popcorn::

Thanks again for everyone who has read and replied and for the lurkers out there reading - come on, post! You know you want to ;)

Working on another mini-update for tomorrow :surfweb:
 
Laura - just noticed that you are from Connecticut? Whereabouts? I'm a Florida native, but my mom and family grew up in Danbury.
 
Coutn me in too! You totally deserve this trip Shannon, it has been a rough year.

And I am actually a tad jealous of you going it alone! Wish I could do that sometime. Taking my 5 yr old alone last fall was pretty much like going alone because I could still make all the plans my way....but being totally alone would be fantastic I think.
 
subscribing. can't wait to hear more!

Thanks for stopping by!!! Stay tuned for more :cutie:

Coutn me in too! You totally deserve this trip Shannon, it has been a rough year.

And I am actually a tad jealous of you going it alone! Wish I could do that sometime. Taking my 5 yr old alone last fall was pretty much like going alone because I could still make all the plans my way....but being totally alone would be fantastic I think.

I definitely expect to have some lonely moments because even though I like to be alone I don't always enjoy it in public places. But it is Disney and I traveled solo for a few hours here and there when I was in the college program and I survived!

Your son is growing so fast! Both of your kids are cuties! I remember when you first posted that you were preggo! What is his name again? I know you mentioned it.

Thanks for reading everybody!!! :goodvibes
 
Seeing as how my trip is almost a week away, I thought I would come up with an itinerary. If you can even call it that. Let's take a look at my plan shall we?

Thursday May 15th
**Wake up early! Would love to be on the road by 6:30, but must be out the door by 7am at the latest which should put me at WDW at 11 by the latest factoring in rush hour traffic down by me
**Check into Pop Century – I booked a standard room, then had concerns that I’d get placed in the 80’s and be isolated from everything (and everyone). I don't want to become the next episode of Dateline Mysteries so I tried to switch to a preferred room, but nothing was available so I simply requested something in the 50’s section or “something close to the food court”. We’ll see how that works out.
**The plan after checking in is to head to Epcot after dropping everything off in the room (if it is ready), maybe heading directly to WS, but who knows.

Friday May 16th
**Today is MK day
**I want to make it to park opening so that is my goal today
**Probably take a mid-day break for a swim or nap and then back out to a park

Saturday May 17th
**More Epcot today - again hoping to be there at opening time
**Today is also the day that I will probably meet up with my Orlando friend – most likely dinner off property somewhere, maybe his house. He is not nearly as big of a planner as I am so I probably won’t know exact plans with him until they are actually happening. Unfortunately he is having some financial issues so my hope of drinking around the world at Epcot probably won’t be happening.

Sunday May 18th
**Check out day
**I hate driving especially when you are leaving a vacation and you are tired so I typically wake up relatively early, 8-ish, pack and have something eat before hitting the road.

I know it's a little heavy on the Epcot but it is one of my favorites (tied with MK) and it just has so much little stuff that can be missed. I really want to try to head to MGM to try to ride the new Toy Story ride but I really am not a fan of that park so I want to make sure that it is actually open before I head over there. I'll probably skip AK too. I want to like it but it doesn't give me the happy feeling in my heart that Epcot and MK do so it's getting the boot this time around.

Seeing as this is my first solo trip and I won't have anyone else to think about but myself (wow that sounds selfish!), I decided to make some goals for this trip of things I like to do, haven't done, etc. They will be added to as I think of them and feel free to throw out some suggestions, like maybe things you would want to do if you were traveling solo. So here is what I have so far:

Trip Goals
1. Take some artsy-fartsy pictures that I a) forget to take on other trips or b) usually don’t have time to take

2. Conquer my fear of eating in a sit down restaurant (heck, any restaurant!) by myself

3. Buy candy/snack food from every country in World Showcase to bring some of Epcot home with me

4. Buy something(s) reasonably priced from World Showcase that I like – just because!

5. Wind down from the day (and get some exercise) with a nightly swim before bed

6. Make it to a park before park opening


Random thoughts: I have been looking at my countdown ticker for a few days now and thinking to myself that it looks wrong. Today I thought, why is it saying 1 week and 1 day? I’m leaving a week from today. I had been thinking this all day until just now when I realized that today is Wednesday and not Thursday. Oh boy.

Until the next update....thanks for reading!!!! :flower3:
 












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