Amy's New Start : Comments Welcome!

[DisDee]

Amy, I'm so glad your friend's surgery went well! Hopefully she'll get some permanent relief form her pain.

I pray that things work out for Dan with his employment issues. (Been there, done that) Networking is the best way to find employment. The fact that he is being so pro-active will make all the difference.

I totally get what you say about your body image. When we look in the mirror we sometimes see what we want to see, but when our image is captured its a totally different story. I know that when I see my picture I always think...do I really look like that? But on the other hand, it works in the opposite way too. When I was in my early 30s, I lost 60 lbs. just by eating less and exercising. No journaling, calories or points. I remember one day while taking an aerobics class and looking in that huge mirror, I saw a person who was actually thin and fit but did not recognize that person as me. I guess I'm trying to say a big part of our self-image is what we create for ourselves.

Don't fret too much about the measurements. Your best indicator is how your clothes feel and you said they fit differently now. Just think that when you're at goal weight you'll be glad that you took those measurements as another indicator of how far you've come.

Have a great day!!!!

 

[toystoryduo]

I'm glad to hear that your friend's surgery went well.

Sending a gentle your way. I completely understand about the measurements and the body image questions. I am right there with you, WISH sis.

I know that you're a fan of Leslie Sansone's... Have you ever read her book, Eat Smart, Walk Strong: The Secrets to Effortless Weight Loss? I got this book for $1.99 at the Borders outlet last weekend and it looks like a really good read. I'm trying to hold off reading it until after school is over though so that I can focus on it better.

I hope you have a wonderful day!

 

[traceycooper]

Hi Amy - so sorry to hear about Dans job, but hopefully its gonna be ok, you both have such a good relationship, to be able to go through this & be so supportive of each other - ive known many relationships that have not survived in similar circumstances!
We had a scare with DH's job, still do kinda, was even considering canceling WDW but he's been told nothing will happen for 2 yrs & i said i'm not prepared to put our lives on hold for 2 yrs - a lot can happen - we have election next week, that could determine a lot!!
I'm glad your friend is doing well, & you are doing fantastic with your food & all that exercise my scale hasnt moved since christmas but i know i've lost inches so dont be too disheartened if the scale isnt playing fair - just keep up the great work!

 

[eyor44]

Amy, I love your attitude and positive spirit. Your determination also. If your clothes are loose, then you have lost. Lots of prayers and that tomorrow's weigh in goes well for you.

So happy to hear that your friend made it through surgery okay. Prayers for a wonderful and speedy recovery.

 

[toystoryduo]

Morning WISH sis!

Sending some your way for weigh-in today. I hope it goes well for you!

Have a great day!

 

[Amy&Dan]

Thank you so much ladies, you keep me going!

I went to evening aquasize last night, it felt weird to be there so late but it was good in several ways: I love that instructor so am happy to now be in her class 3x per week instead of just once, dd got to go with me, and if I begin work, I now know I can still do that since it doesn't start until 6:30.

Weigh in was good, I was down 2.8. Had I had a decent weekend I could have lost more, but the good news is that with these long workouts, I guess they give me some wiggle room with food! Or is that a good thing?

I have done well with food today, Stepdad is taking us out for Mexican tonight and I am determined to walk in that place chewing gum because the minute I stick one chip in my mouth, its OVER! I need a good weekend or at least only one bad day on the weekend. This thing of having my weekend food fest start on Friday night and run through Sunday afternoon needs to stop!

I got an email update from my friend's mom. She walked down the hall alone with her walker today and she is now able to keep some liquids down. So she may get released as soon as tonight or tomorrow at the latest. Thanks so much for the prayers and good thoughts, she's been through so much but I think she's on the upswing!

Tracey: I am so glad to see you! Don't cancel WDW, two years is a lot of time for things to workout and change. Dan has had a lot of signs this was going to happen and maybe we shouldnt' have travelled but then again, I am not going to second guess this to death. Life is too short to play it so safe you can't enjoy it!

Tracy: I am going to Borders this weekend and if they don't have it, I am ordering it online. I love Leslie as you know!

Denise: Women and body image is always a bit sad isn't it? We really harm ourselves with our denial that works both ways. I too have been known to lose weight and still not see myself as thin or attractive. I am working on it though!

Lisa: The loose clothes is what makes me realize that I have done some serious work in the past four months. Your trip is close!

 

[Amy&Dan]

Forgot to add that I got in something like 360 minutes of exercise in four days so that's good.

I am really trying to carve out a walk today, I am so behind (busy, crazy week) and am trying to get the house in order but I may just say to heck with it and go anyway. Anal Amy Neat Freak is not easily able to do this so we'll see!

For some reason it won't let me edit my post so I just posted another add on to my above post!

 

[lovinaz]

Congrats on the loss!!! That's just what you need to kick off the weekend on a good note. I like your idea about chewing gum and laying off the chips at the Mexican place.

I'm glad you like the evening aquasize class, it's just another option to keep you on the right track.

You are doing AWESOME, I'm so proud of you. I see a determination that's going to stick around.

 

[toystoryduo]

Congrats on your weight loss, Amy!!!

I'm glad that you like the evening aquacise class.

I hope you have a great day today!

 

[toystoryduo]

Sent you a PM. Hope you're having a great day!

 

[Amy&Dan]

Thanks Tracy and Amy.

How can it be Monday?

Well, I did well at the Mexican place only to end up eating some junk during half time while we watched the Nuggets at a friend's house. So mad at myself that at 10:00 p.m., I undid all the good I had done earlier that day. I don't know why I do that and it makes me wonder if I will ever really be able to just say no consistently to the things that are bad for me!

Saturday was to be my free day and I took it but only that evening. We had friends over for drinks and appetizers. I ate more than I should but less than I could have. I did have four Coors Lights over the course of about a four our evening and I am really still feeling the affects of too much salt and too much alcohol. I know I am bloated but I also know that will pass out of my system, hopefully today! The rest of the weekend was fine on food and I did get a walk in on Friday afternoon. In the snow and wind but I got in 50 fast minutes on the track at dd's school. I am glad I did, the rest of the weekend was so busy I didn't have time and last night when Dan and I were going to walk, it was so bitter cold and windy we neither one felt like it.

So I had two slip ups this weekend which was less than last weekend but more than I was aiming for. Weekends are so tough for me!


My friend is home from the hospital and recovering well and thanks for all your prayers and good thoughts! It was a big decision for her to make as far as going through such a major surgery and the long recovery but I think she really did the right thing.

 

[Amy&Dan]

Well, I was/have been having a very off, down day all day today. Just feeling depressed, wondering when/how long it will take for Dan to get a job, sad about a young man from our church that died over the weekend and just you know, blah. Then something wonderful happened! I got a call from some guy in Texas, he was looking for an Amy "S" (my maiden name) who was the daughter of my dad. I was really baffled, my dad has been dead for almost 38 years. I called him back, turns out some old, worthless mineral wells of my grandparents that were left to their 9 grandkids may be leased (don't get excited, they are still worthless lol) and he needs to send me some paperwork. I should preface this by saying that I have lost touch with three of my cousins. Their mother was my dad's sister, she also passed away (33 years ago) and as things happen, we lost touch. They are all much older than me and I havent' seen any of them in years. But I have always wondered, about my "girl" cousins in particular. The man told me he had talked to one of them and that she had asked him to please give me her phone number and call her. I did immediately and praise the Lord, it was like no time had passed! She's 15 years older than I am, I have seen her twice in 30 years (most recently was 13 years ago), I thought she was living in Alaska but she's back in Texas. We talked for an hour, and serioulsy, it was like being back in my grandmother's kitchen. She sounds just the same, she was very sad to know from the man from the energy company my mom had died, I hadn't been able to find her to let her know. I told her I'd make the trip to where she lives (about 3 hours outside Dallas) in July when I am in Dallas to see her. I am so excited. So my blah day got a whole lot brighter.

So my royalties from anything they find in those wells will be about enough to buy me a Starbucks or two, but I have gained back some long lost cousins in the process!

Never did make it to they gym but I am fine with that, since I feel like that very long, very important phone call was worth not working out!

 

[traceycooper]

wow Amy - thats so cool you got back in touch with your relative! someone was watching over you & wanted to cheer you up today!!
I hope the mine/well turns out to be a gold mine/well

congrats on the great WI too

 

[toystoryduo]

Wow Amy! That is so cool that you have re-connected with your cousin! What a blessing from the Lord!

I hope the wells turn out to be a gold mine for you!

Hope you're having a wonderful day! The book should be in the mail tomorrow.

 

[toystoryduo]

Your book in on the way!

Hope you have a nice evening!

 

[Amy&Dan]

Thanks Tracey and Tracy. I am afraid that well will maybe buy me enough to take Dan and the kids to the fast food place of their choice, as long as it has a dollar menu! But reconnecting with my cousin was indeed heaven sent. She was one of my mom's favorites, in fact she was the flower girl at my parent's wedding back in 1954! She has a daughter that is developmentally disabled and I got to talk to her too. She's 40 and I always loved having a little cousin to play with (being the youngest kid in my family all the way around it was nice to finally have somebody who was younger!) and although she and I are both grown, she's hoping we can still play when I see her in July. Just made my day/week/month/year!

Yesterday stunk plain and simple. Tons of drama with ds, that kid will keep giving me gray hairs forever no doubt! I got so off kilter, didn't work out again but got right back in the gym today. I did 60 minutes of aquasize and a 60 minute walk and my food has been very good. I am having dinner tonight witha friend at Olive Garden and I am having a ceaser salad with the dressing on the side. No pasta for me, I don't have the wiggle room with points this late in the week!

Tracy: Thanks for the book, I know I will love it and you just amaze me with how much you look out for me!

Tracey: If that well does turn out big, I am taking all my Wish Sisters to WDW! But don't hold your breath!

 

[eyor44]

Hi Amy
I am so thankful your friend is doing so well. Has she gone home yet? I do hope the surgery works for her.

How absolutly wonderful about your cousin. Hopefully you will find a couple more in the process.

Ah, DS'. if you only knew what happened concerning mine Saturday before I left. Kids.

 

[toystoryduo]

Amy,

I'm sorry to hear about the drama with your DS. I hope everything works out soon. Good for you for getting back into the gym the very next day! I'm proud of you!

I hope you're able to see your cousins in July. It sounds like you would have a wonderful time with them!

I started reading Leslie's book this morning. It is a great read! There is so much in there that I can relate to. I'm looking forward to trying this 6 week program once school is over!

Hope you have a wonderful day!

 

[Amy&Dan]

Thanks Lisa and Tracy.

The drama with ds was centered around drama with one of the girls at church he's gotten pretty friiendly with. If my own son can't create enough drama, his two friends at church who are girls are glad to help with that process. I keep telling him he's no match for two girls who are best friends and way more sophisticated with this girl/boy thing than he'll ever be! He says he's done with women forever!

I had lunch with a friend today, I had a salad with dressing on the side. Tonight I need to walk and aquasize. I was going to walk just now outside but as is so often the case, the winds blew in, the temperature plummeted so I'll just get to the gym early and walk there. This is why I have the rec center, heaven knows that if I only had the great outdoors to rely on, I'd be in trouble!

Lisa: You'll have to fill me in on your ds' drama when you get home! You picked a good week to be away.

Tracy: I can't wait to read that book. I find Leslie to be one of the few celebrity/famous/diet/exercise folks that I think can actually relate to regular people!

Hope everyone is having a great day!

Oh forgot to add I had a salad with no dressing at Olive Garden but I also had two Bud Light's and two breadsticks. I should have plugged my nose because the minute I smell their bread, I'm usually in trouble. I did stay within points thanks to be very careful throughout the day. I guess the scale will be the judge!

 

[toystoryduo]

He says he's done with women forever!

Too funny, Amy! I bet he'll change his mind in a day or two.

You had a salad at Olive Garden WITHOUT the salad dressing?!?!? Great job, Amy! They have the BEST dressing there! Love their croutons too! And don't even get me started on those breadsticks. YUMMY! (Can you tell I haven't been to Olive Garden in awhile? )

Sending some for weigh-in. I hope it goes well for you today.

Have a great Friday!