We have 5 children, 20 years apart, (almost to the day.) I had my first baby at 21 and my last at age 41.
I had the amnio with the last two.
Baby #4... perfect.
Baby #5...
The amnio revealed the baby was fine but while viewing the baby to perform the amnio, they saw something they had missed on a previous sono.
After a couple of weeks of more sonograms, we were told our baby would be born with a very rare birth defect. So rare, we had to travel out of state to deliver and have him born near expert doctors, as he would need surgery immediately after birth.
While they were still trying to diagnose him through sonograms, the doctors kept informing us there was still time to abort, even though the amnio results confirmed he was "normal." When I asked, "My baby can think, feel, love, laugh, why do you keep bring up abortion?" They said, "Many people don't want anything less than a perfect baby, we are required to inform you of your options."
Knowing in advance was a blessing. We were able to research his condition, interview doctors and find our son the very best medical care. We were able to prepare ourselves and our other children.
Our son spent his first month of life in a hospital, and DH and I lived in Boston for that month, to be with him. He is 8 now, and has since had 4 more surgeries, with more planned in his future. There is no cure but he's doing great! He's beautiful, smart, funny and loving and we are so thankful we knew in advance because if we hadn't known... he might not be here.