it's happening a lot this season. i honestly think i'm going to try out next year, and when they tell me how horrible i sound, i'll start begging "OMG NO PLEASE!!!!! THIS IS MY LIFE!!! WITHOUT THIS I AM NOTHING!!!!" *worlds smallest violin plays in the backround*
She needs to understand that her life in all likelihood will NOT be with music. It could be a fun side project but her career in music is unlikely. THEN what will she do?