Chef Mickey is our entire family's favorite

. So I think it is a great choice

. I can also tell you that my DS, who is almost 11, has never minded going to the princess

things because he knows his sister likes them. He figures he gets to do enough with Mickey

, and the other things he likes to do, that he can deal with them for one meal

. He knows the trip is not just for him and that everyone should get to do some of the things they want to, even if it's not necessarily what everyone else wants to do. If it was me I would plan to all go together, and plan a different meal at someplace like Chef Mickey's that is geared to be something you nephew would like.
I guess for me personally WDW is a family vacation, and so we do everything as a family

. That means making compromises so that everyone has a great time

.