Ok, maybe this has been said already but I wasn't going to read 10+ pages but if you KNEW the airline served peanuts, why did you book a flight on that airline?I guess if my child had such a severe allergy I would make sure they didn't serve peanuts and fly with someone that served something else. Besides that, how are you going to stop everyone else on the plane from eating peanut products. DH always takes Reeces Peanut Butter cups on flights.
I also have NOT read all the posts, but also wondered WHY the parent would book a flight were she knew that peanuts were still used as snacks. Why put yourself and child at risk when there are other airlines who have taken peanuts off their snack list.
Brought me back to my girl scout leader days........had a mom who said her daughter had a VERY serve peanut allergy. Ok, so I took that serious. The mom wanted to make sure that EVERYONE supplied a snack that did not contain anything with peanut or was manufactured were peanuts were. Did you know that "candy corn" has a peanut warning on it?? one of the moms bought it to use as markers for bingo.
So to get to my point, it was just to hard to police what was given to these girls especially if it was a "home baked" treat.
I said to the mom of the girl.......if you want to make sure your daughter doesn't have anything with peanut in it or anything that was manufactured near peanuts, then YOU have to supply her snack at each meeting. OR you need to contact the mom who is bringing the snack and check it out before the meeting.
I felt it wasn't fair to the other moms to have to make sure whatever they were bringing for snack was ok for her daughter to have and I explained to the Mom that I would "think" that she would want to know 100% that what her daughter was eating was ok for her, especially after the candy corn that was brought in. (side note: the girl had no problem handling the candy corn as they just used it as markers)
Of course the mom was not happy with my directions. And I just put it back on her that it wasn't fair to all of the other moms........all I could think of is what if this girl had a bad reaction from a homemade treat.......how would the mom who baked it feel???
Tried my hardest to let this mom of the girl to see the other side of it, but she just pitched a fit and finally caved and sent her daughter with her own "safe snacks"
I do agree that the way the OP was spoken to was not nice and not necessary