My SIL was going to book either the Pirate cruise thing at the GF or Alice Tea for this past trip for her girls because it was my daughter's turn to get the gift of the Princess Tea from her grandmother (the youngest granddaughter will get that gift next trip.) For her, this emphasis was not alarming because she has a child who is very unreliable with being left-- sometimes she gets excited about the activity at hand, and sometimes she gets entirely overwhelmed and falls apart. She was also too young for both activities (she was 3.5 at the time) but SIL was considering fudging on that. (Lets not go *there*, shall we? I am not condoning, just reporting.) The emphasis that the CM put on the adults not being included helped her to decide NOT to fudge the age and also not to book the activity because she didn't want to be out the $$ if her daughter refused to let her Mommy leave. I am SURE that there have been plenty of incidents where a child was not prepared for their parents to have to leave and, as stimulating and thus overwhelming as anything at Disney can be, there was an ugly scene which not only is not magical for the child and parent directly involved, but with smaller kids can have a spillover effect!