It's funny how so many people can have vastly different experiences at the same place. I guess it's completely dependent on the day!
I was somewhat discouraged with our experience there. I kept my feelings to myself, because my children are too young to care if something is not as it should be. They were very thrilled, so I that's all that matters.
However, as an adult who is the one paying all the money for this, I felt what Disney has to offer there was not worth the price tag. The breakfast was tasty and well presented, but there wasn't much on the menu that my husband was willing to eat. And I pretty much paid through the nose for my kids to eat a few bites of eggs and some bacon.
It wasn't even the food that was the problem for me. There were only 3 princesses (I was expecting at least 5 for the price we paid), and they were all in a rush. We had to move very quickly to get them to sign the autograph books, take a couple pictures, and talk to my girls for a brief moment. The amount of time they spent with my kids was actually less than the amount of time we got with the princesses in various locations around the parks (which we didn't have to pay money to go spend time with). We were there for the last week of January, which is the slowest time of year. If they were rushed then, I wonder what it would be like in a busier season. We've been to other meals where the characters have come around a few times and really interacted. These princesses never came back... and we waited a long time, because I couldn't believe we paid all that money for 1 very brief interaction. I kept sitting there thinking they must be coming back around. Finally we gave up and left after the waitress kept coming back to prod us along. We asked her if any other princesses would be coming, and she said no.
Also, they didn't have actresses that looked very much like their character. There was no facial similarity, and they didn't act "in character" at all. It was basically three girls in pretty dresses and wigs. They were also not animated at all. They were very quiet and subdued. It was not the high quality "Disney magic" we are accustomed to.
With all that said, I think a princess meal is worth it to do one time. But after that, I think the experience you get with the princesses in Toontown Fair is more enjoyable, the characters are more authentic in terms of appearance and personality, they spend more time with you, and it's free.
My advice is to go ahead and do it, because your kids will LOVE it. But keep your expectations very low and make your peace with the fact that you're paying a lot of money for it. Then you won't be dissapointed. On the other hand, if it turns out to be a great experience like many people have reported having, then you'll be delightfully surprised!!
