This trip is the first time I've had to deal with this paying to choose your seat no matter what. Until now, the only time I've HAD to pay for a seat was a premium seat within 24 hours of departure. We flew on Sun Country. Unfortunately, I had a TA book my flight. But she did NOT tell me that it was a possibility that my 2 yo could be split up from me or my DH not to mention my 9 year old as well. I asked her about it and she said they'd seat us together but of course, there are NO guarantees unless you pay for that guarantee and IMO, that is wrong when talking about children at least under 12. Though I'm sure you guys all realize how different that would be parting a wife and husband as opposed to a mom (or dad) and their toddler. If airlines are going to force families to pay to keep their children by them then they NEED to say that up front. I was not told up front and actually no where on the booking site did it say anything about it until AFTER booking. At least then. A local news station did a piece on the "hidden" fees you should be watching for after my giving them a heads up on it. It is NOT about the $ families have to pay because like it or not, it is VERY different to split up adult travelers and young children w/ their parents. It's about the possibilities of being parted from children. Just the possibility is immoral IMO. So it is a fee families don't have a choice in.... UNLESS they know up front about it and can (for the time being) shop other airlines. Yes, I did pay to have all 4 of us seated together. I think it was $8 a seat each way. Until I'm forced into it though, which I'm certain will come, I will not patronize an airline that finds it acceptable to part a child from the parent. Period.
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I think some people that travel more and also airlines forget that this isn't exactly the way it has always been, so people traveling only every couple years wouldn't have given this a thought. The family mentioned in a previous post that was upset about being separated and the gate people getting short with them is unfortunate. It's possible they knew about it, but it's even more possible they didn't. These changes the airlines make don't exactly get front page billing nor a flashing light on their website to draw attention to MORE FEES. You just end up stepping in it so to speak. So as a PP said that people need to suck it up and pay, I ask you to understand, not everyone KNOWS about this. It's IMO pulling a fast one adding things on quietly and leaving it up to people to stumble on.