No real answers, will just share what I've done so far. (I very much appreciate this "misery loves company" post.) I've been looking ahead as far as possible for the weeks leading up to Barcelona RT
DCL May 2019. This was the only way I could start getting a sense for the fares. FYI I would likely never use Disney air, as I'm a control freak!
I thought we would use miles too, but my expectations were off. I've flown into Paris, Heathrow (3x), & Rome (2x) and have learned I'm just not a good eastbound flyer (read: JET LAG!) I both need to sleep and have back issues (some times). So roll your eyes now, my last work flight (to Rome) I paid the difference to upgrade to business class, which was a very worthwhile decision.
So BFF and I agreed business on the way over and economy on the way home. (Many sites don't allow for such a search and two one-ways are WAY more expensive.) The business mile requirement was MUCH more than I expected (United). FYI I do NOT love United, but have some miles that have been building.
So cash consideration it is. I was flabbergasted our flight would cost more than our DCL! (From a placeholder & booked 14 months in advance! The cruise now seemed reasonable!) So I figured looking at Ohare or Cincy (instead of home in Indianapolis & we have a family member who could drive us) would be the solution. Nope. Either the exact same price or more! Then I looked into flying into Madrid (& then take the train). Nope. Same price!
Looking at Delta, Indy & Cincy both have two stops each way (and no return from Barcelona after 10am), which we were trying & needed to avoid. Same price range.
So at this point I'm just waiting for our dates to actually publish on United. The two single benefits are only have one stop each way, and for the outbound, having access to the new Polaris Lounge. I was able to experience the first one in Chicago soon after it opened and felt it made a world of difference, as I was able to take my traditional evening shower and grab dinner (heavy appetizers) complimentary.
Yet I do have a limit I simply cannot exceed, so hopefully BFF and I do not have to have a disappointing conversation. The only real savings will be using points to stay in Barcelona.
UGH. How depressing!