AHHHHH! Should I laugh or cry?!?!

StephSFL

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Ok! I know we all go through difficult times during the wedding planning process, but this has gotten ridiculous! BAD WEEKEND!!!!
First, my hard drive crashes! Everything I had made for the wedding is gone- programs, address lists, newsletters, meal choices- irretrievable (or so the poor man who had to deal with me at BB)! I also lost all my resume and cover letters stuff! I have to laugh about this part- I really was looking for an excuse to not apply for jobs and keep working on the wedding stuff!:scared1:

Second, bad phone call with planner. I have not had the best time with my planner. She was assigned to me when I had a different wedding date and she said she could handle the change in dates even though she was booked-up for this time of year. Hard to get a hold of and pin down to talk to, now it has caused problems.:sad2:
Third, my wedding band a no-show! My DF & I picked out our bands at a national store over two months ago. They put a rush order in for both of ours (you keep the in-stock ring and exchange it when your size comes in). DF’s came in two weeks later and we have been calling/stopping by trying to get a status update every few days for the past three weeks. Long story, but after many talks with our sales rep, managers, etc. the due date had come and gone with no answer on where the ring really was! Everyone just kept saying don’t worry, we can always re-size the one you have. After a few calls on Saturday we got a call that the ring was in! An hour later, we get there and it was another one just like DF’s.
No one seems to know what happened. They didn’t know when or if mine would come in (no one available to ask on the weekends) and they wouldn’t resize mine without a huge fee (too difficult they said)! :mad:
So, we went looking and found another one that will work. I know I should be grateful we found something that will work and a jeweler who will take the time to alter it, but this is all getting a bit ridiculous!
With two weeks to go, between the FMIL (I am so glad to hear I am not the only person with this problem), the computer stuff, the WP problems, my dress issues, and the other little problems that are adding up I am overwhelmed!!!!
I must have done something really bad to deserve this!!!!
I know it could be a lot worse, just writing this rant made me feel better!
Hope everyone else had a good weekend!
 
Steph - I know what those days feel like. I had a few of those myself before the wedding. We had to make the CD for the ceremony music and my CD drive decided it wasn't going to work anymore. I had to go to my brother's house, re-download all the music and burn it onto a CD. BTW - my CD drive still isn't working........ Good luck on redoing all your wedding stuff. ;) It will work out and probably come out even better than before... that includes your resume and cover letter.... feel free to rant anytime. :goodvibes

Diane :)
 
You poor thing!!! When it rains, it pours, doesn't it?? I don't know what I can say to make it better, but hang in there and know you have all the support you need right here :) :) :) Seriously, I know I'm a total stranger, but whatever you need, we can help!!!
 
Steph,
I'm so sorry all this has happened to such a great person. You are one of the people on here i truely concider a friend. All I can say is keep your chin up. Hopefully all will get better soon. You deserve the happiest wedding off all.

:grouphug:
 

Thank you all so much for the support- I can't tell you how much it has meant.
It is funny, but even though we don't know each other besides the boards, I feel more comfortable talking about this stuff with y'all then the people I physically have around me.
Happylalagirl- You were right, it did come out better the second time around!:rotfl: Still, I think I will wait until after the wedding to work on the resume too much.;) Hope you are feeling well!
SRUAlum & Princessdisneybelle- thank you all so much! If there is anythign I can ever do please ask!
I love hearing about y'alls weddings/plans and I get so excited for your big days!
Thank you again for letting me rant! I am not trying for pitty- I just know y'all have been in the same shoes and can understand. I'm a little tired from a late night, but everything is getting put back together.
 
Steph I am glad everything is coming out ok now - and feel free to rant anytime - that's what we're all here for! :hug:
 
Aww I'm sorry that you are having a bad weekend! I hope it gets better for you really soon. Soon enough you will be married and that is all that matters!
 
I am so sorry that you are going through all of this just before the BIG DAY. Just take a deep breath and know that everything will be ok. I am sure it does not feel that way now but I am sure everything will work out. Just think of it this way in 2 weeks your dream will come true! Best Wishes!
 
Goodness Gracious--- I am so sorry to hear about all of this. If i can help with preparing anything that you lost- please let me know (I have a lot of time on my hands these days with the wedding behind me and whatnot!).

Im so sorry-
Maggie
 












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