... it's only natural you wouldn't feel like you missed out on the magic at all--you don't have anything to compare it to! Next time try staying on property and see if you feel the same way, then you will be able to make an apples-to-apples comparison and choice for future visits.
I thought I'd chime in.
For my brother's wish trip last August, we were blessed to stay in the Paradise Pier Hotel. We got an upper theme park view room, and it was fantastic. It was something we viewed as a once-in-a-lifetime experience, and I still think we view it that way. Don't get me wrong, it was FANTASTIC, but we don't feel we would ever pay that much for a hotel. I really don't understand why people would book to stay onsite without a view IMO. Other than that, it is just a normal hotel and room.
With that said, we still can't get over the view. If it ever happens again (me staying onsite), I will not stay on Disney property without a view room. This comes into your "comparison" statement. I feel that it wouldn't have been so cool if we couldn't see DCA every night, and if I'm spending that much money on a room (unlikely), then I would want to get something that sets it apart from other hotels. The "Magic" and EMH just don't cut it for me.
As a side note, we had some great luck this year, and with a little extra, unexpected income and a goal, we had a fantastic trip to
Disneyland and Universal this past February. We got five day PH, a day in Universal, hotel, gas, and food for six people for less than $2200. This was with us staying off-site, at a hotel my mom liked more than the PPH (Less than $90 a night. YAY CYBER MONDAY DEALS!

) and eating what we wanted. This may sound to some like a bare-bones trip, but it was not. It was absolutely perfect. We ate what we wanted to, got souvenirs, and had a great time, all while coming in EXTREMELY underbudget.
Did we feel it was different than staying onsite? Yes.
Did it affect our trip? No.
My post is just showing that staying onsite is just not for everyone, regardless of budget or preference, and that I get much more excited about a good deal than staying at an onsite hotel.
