Age Differences.

[Cinderelli16]

I don't see the big deal.


If two people love each other, why should age come in their way? That being said, I do think that dating someone 15+ years older/younger than you is gross, but anything younger than that is fine.

I love my boyfriend. He is 31. I am 18, almost 19. Is that gross? Absolutely not.

As long as you two love each other.
We all have our own views, as for me I just couldn't see myself dating someone that much older than me, but everyone is different. I hope everything works out between you two.

 

[ginnygirl102]

I don't really like to go older because guys already think they wear the pants in a relationship so if you are older it gives advantage, but I could only go up to 3-4 years older (unless Taylor Lautner asks me out)

 

[Princess victoria]

at the yougest a year, oldest two to three
it really depends on the guy

 

[Zip-A-Dee-Lady]

As long as you two love each other.
We all have our own views, as for me I just couldn't see myself dating someone that much older than me, but everyone is different. I hope everything works out between you two.

Thanks =]
Most people really do flip out when they hear about our age difference.

But it all really does depend on the maturity of the two people. I don't believe that men or women wear the pants in a relationship. I believe in an equal relationship.

 

[Shelton123]

Well I'd go two years older, and as long as they're in the same grade as me, they are old enough. I don't date people ina previous grade, it just feels creepy for me. When I was 11 I dated a 13 year old (who was almost 14, really) so that's the furthest I've ever gone. I've never dated anyone younger than me. In fact, I think every girl I've dated so far was about 1 year older than me. I've always been attracted to older girls, for some reason.

 

[HSMndLKfan92]

My first ex is almost 5 years older than me.
My other ex is about 6 months younger than me.
Both relationships worked while they lasted.

I wouldn't date someone waaay too much older than me, like around 5 years older at most, and no one too much younger.

 

[STOPxmickeytime]

I'm personally just uncomfortable with large age gaps.
Maybe 2 years older and a year or so under.

But it would depend on the situation.
Nothing's written in stone.

 

[AmandaSparks730]

I'd date one one year younger or one year older ATM.

In the future (in my 20's), 5 years older and 3 years younger.

 

[Cassidy]

Uhm.
I dont like age differences.
It's kinda weird TO ME. :/

The limit I would say would have to be like..a year younger or just a few years/months older.

 

[pigletgirl]

My BF is 3.5 months older than me. Same age.

 

[DramaGirl]

The guy I'm kind of half going out with (lol) is two years older than me. That's about as far as I'd go in high school. After high school is different.

 

[baby<3]

My boyfriend turns sixteen Wednesday and I turn eighteen in February =)

 

[MrsSparrow..]

Thanks for the quick replies guys

Given me a few more perspectives.

 

[Aimbier31]

idk i know someone who got married an her husband is 10 yrs older then her but i wouldnt go too old like as long as im a teenager im not gonna date someone whos 20 or over except for Rpattz of course and i would go more then 1 yr younger

 

[i<3castawaycay123]

im 13 so the farthest i would go would prob be like only 3 years older and maybe 1 year younger. my grandmother is a little less than 1 month older than my grandfather and i dont see anything wrong w/ that. i couldnt see myself dating someone really older than me or really younger than me. umm i like really close ages in relationships. i think it all depends on ur maturity level.

 

[inlalaland]

Well before you turn 18, probably 2 or 3 years older at the most. After 18 I don't think it should be a big deal how old your SO is. My aunt and uncle are 12 years apart, while my parents are almost exactly a year apart.

 

[tinkerbell12]

not more than 3 years either way

But my parents are a few years apart and my grandparents are like ten years so... Doesn't matter much.

 

[ohdisco]

Well, when you get older the being with an older person thing doesn't really bother me. I'm 20, and I'd probably go 5 or so years older. The life experiences between a 20 and a 25 year old aren't a lot different besides graduation and being able to drink legally, haha. I wouldn't go younger than 18 under any circumstances for obvious legality reasons.

I'd go to 29 to be with John Krasinski though, haha.