I think that is a question of personal preference - and - if you ask 5 different membes you will get 5 different responses.
We love OKW. Big rooms, low point requirements! Also, very serene - you are not in the middle of it! But, many do not like it because you are not in the middle of it and if you dont drive you are a slave to the Bus!
Others love SSR. Great pool area close to Dowtown Disney. Park at your door - and quiet! But, you may not like that!
Go to BCV! Things always happening, fall out of your bed and in to Epcot! The pool is an attraction in itself! But, I personally do not care for the "Hotel" feel!
How about BWV! I think BWV is very much like BCV - but - a little more gentile!
There is always VWL! Great setting, take a boat to the MK! But, the Bus service is not as good as other resorts.
There are 100 things to like and dis-like at each resort. And, I think it comes down to what you like and what your family wants!