Dallas Lady,
It's been a well known secret that staying in a home is one of the best ways of visiting the area. If you pick your location well, depending on what you want to do, then you can't go far wrong.
Let's look at the economics...a 3 bed house sleeping 6 to 8 people at $ 79 + tax per night (low season) equates to $ 9.88 per person. Add into the equation the fact that you get a fully equipped home with full kitchen, laundry, your own bedroom away from everyone else , garage to keep the car cool(ish), and best of all your own private pool and you start to understand why a vacation home is the only choice to make when compared to a hotel.
Most people who stay in a home never go back to a hotel when visiting this part of the world and for very good reason. Who wants the crowds, the lack of personal space and the heavy cost?
Not many.
Now let's look at the larger homes. 5,6 and 7 bedroom homes are out there and priced at the same level. If you have a family reunion, a sporting occassion or just fancy some extra space with your loved one, what better? These homes can take 10- 16 people and each of you all have your own space.....your own pool and your own memories.
I challenge even the best hotel to give you that, either as an individual or as a family.
Now let's look at the food and drink side. Some folks want to be waited on when on vacation. By staying in a home you have more choice....you can cook for yourself, you can visit any number of restaurants and you simply have more choice. Couple that with the advantages of the full size kitchen and you see that you can save money hand over fist.
The only other objection I come across is ease of getting around. It's true that when staying on Disney property you get to use their transport but who really wants to wait for an unreliable service and then to share space with someone else ? Not me, that's for sure.
I much prefer having my own vehicle. Picking my own schedule and doing as I please. If I go to a park I know I can be back home within 5-10 minutes , have a dip in the pool and then go back feeling refreshed later. Yes, you can do that on Disney property but you need to really know the bus schedule to be back at your hotel within 10 minutes and have a fair amount of luck to boot. You can then share a pool with a load of strangers and then finally you can go back to the parks providing you've worked out the bus schedule.
I worked out 10 years ago that a home was the only way for me. I totally understand why folks stay on Disney property for the Disney treatment but after a while you do start to look around to find something different, something better and something that can save you money. There really is no better way.....enjoy your stay.
