advice plz

[alycat07]

i had this bf...and his mom made him break up wtih me...and he still likes me....and his friend is tryin to get us bac together...but i dont no wut to do..cuz i rele rele like him....and if his friend don't come up with nuttin...then ill be even more sad then i already am now..i jus dont no wut to do​

 

[meeshheartsdisney217]

well I would say it depends on why your mom made you break up with him, if it was because she thought you were too young, you might as well go and be two people who like each other
but if she just didn't like him, then I'd say get back together

 

[swimer3]

ya, why did you have break up with him? If it was something like, he is over 18, ya, i agree with your mother. But if its something like, i dont like the way he dresses, i would go out with him. It depends what your mom said. How old are you?

 

[MuNkY]

ya, why did you have break up with him? If it was something like, he is over 18, ya, i agree with your mother. But if its something like, i dont like the way he dresses, i would go out with him. It depends what your mom said. How old are you?

No his mom made them break up.

 

[alycat07]

his mom..made him break up with me...and im not excatly sure y..i guess that she ddint want him to have a girlfriend...thats what i think he said.....but his mom checks his emails..his profile..his IMs to see who hes talkin to and everything..its so annyonin....and so there is like almost no way to talk to him​

 

[MuNkY]

his mom..made him break up with me...and im not excatly sure y..i guess that she ddint want him to have a girlfriend...thats what i think he said.....but his mom checks his emails..his profile..his IMs to see who hes talkin to and everything..its so annyonin....and so there is like almost no way to talk to him​

Ok....THAT'S a paranoid mom. How old is he, and how old are you?

 

[alycat07]

ulmost 14....yea..sum might consider that young..but u hafta look at it another way..connorz had a girlfriend when he was 10...and his mom was fine with it.....but i mean...we might be young..but who cares..we like each otha..and thats wut should count..​

 

[MuNkY]

ulmost 14....yea..sum might consider that young..but u hafta look at it another way..connorz had a girlfriend when he was 10...and his mom was fine with it.....but i mean...we might be young..but who cares..we like each otha..and thats wut should count..​

Well when your ten, there isn't really a such thing as love.

Now if your 13, yeah I would be a little iffy about it. I mean, I would want to know what's going on, but making him break up with you, looking at his profile, (although I don't see what that has to do with everything ), checking his e-mail, his IM convos...ect. Now that's a little much. I mean, even MY mom doesn't do that.

But it kinda sounds like your screwed. I mean, I'm sure you can hang out with him and stuff. And I always laugh at parents who try to keep their kids from liking certain people. Haven't they heard of the Romeo & Juliet effect?

 

[alycat07]

yea but still....she told him he couldn't even talk to me...but he does anyway..sumtimes..otha times he ignores me..so im pretty sure thats when his moms standin right there..and bout the 10 yea old thing..u can still like sum1 when ur 10...it dont mata what age u r...yet she was fine with it.​

 

[alycat07]

o and the pro thing..um...my name was in it...cuz his friend makes it..and like...she put my name in it..like 4 times​

 

[swimer3]

oops my mad. i should have read it more carefully. Well, he's mom is alittle scary. 13 is the right age to start dating, i think. But im 13. I would say, talk it over with him. Talking is the best way to solve problems.

 

[MuNkY]

yea but still....she told him he couldn't even talk to me...but he does anyway..sumtimes..otha times he ignores me..so im pretty sure thats when his moms standin right there..and bout the 10 yea old thing..u can still like sum1 when ur 10...it dont mata what age u r...yet she was fine with it.​

Ok, she doesn't even let you talk to him? Ok, that's a little wacky in my book.

And when your ten, you still really don't know what love is. Sure you can like someone, but it's still not love.

 

[alycat07]

the point is...his mom dont want him to have a girlfriend..or at least me....i dont no wut to do bout it..cuz his mom will sum how find out everything we talk bout​

 

[MuNkY]

the point is...his mom dont want him to have a girlfriend..or at least me....i dont no wut to do bout it..cuz his mom will sum how find out everything we talk bout​

I would have a talk with his mom then. Really find out what the deal is, and then try to work something out.

 

[alycat07]

i dont want to..she scares me....a lot...his friend sonya is tryin to find sum way to figure this out....and i hope she does...but as far as i no..theres like no way thisll work​

 

[MuNkY]

i dont want to..she scares me....a lot...his friend sonya is tryin to find sum way to figure this out....and i hope she does...but as far as i no..theres like no way thisll work​

Well then you need to overcome your fears, or your going to get nowhere. Talking face to face with her would be the best thing to do, to figure it out.

 

[alycat07]

yea well the only problem with that is..she wont let me talk to her..she just wont....she'll walk away anytime she seez me..i could convince connor to let me talk to his mom online...maybe then she'll listen to me​

 

[MuNkY]

yea well the only problem with that is..she wont let me talk to her..she just wont....she'll walk away anytime she seez me..i could convince connor to let me talk to his mom online...maybe then she'll listen to me​

Then you really have to assert yourself to talk to her. If you knock on her door, and she just opens the door and then re-closes it, knock again, and again if needed. If you try to talk to her and she just walks away, follow her.

 

[alycat07]

ive tried..one time she called the copz..but cj like..convinced her not to​

 

[MuNkY]

ive tried..one time she called the copz..but cj like..convinced her not to​

She called the cops just for you trying to talk to her?