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[♥Ariel♥]

Okay..so there is this kid i have liked almost all year but thing is i dont no how to talk to him like conversation wise. he is in my third period class tommorow and i figure i have three months left of school i better start talking to him. all i know is he likes to play soccer. but i really dont know that much about sports and i am shy and a littleover wieght (but i have been loosing weight like yesterday i lost 3lbs. at the gym ) anyway i am really nervous like i said so talking to boys is even harder plus ive never had a boyfriend! any help we be greatly accepted!

 

[HSMndLKfan92]

Depending on the subject, if you don't understand something, ask him.

 

[♥Ariel♥]

thanks, i might try that we sit on oppisite sides of the room but we are getting a new seating chart thing so if we seat near each other (fingers crossed) i will.

 

[bananda]

ask him about sports. if he likes it, he will have no problems talking about it

 

[♥Ariel♥]

ask him about sports. if he likes it, he will have no problems talking about it

thats a good idea. thanks! uhgg why must boys be so complicated?

 

[HouseMD1120]

I think girls are more complicated than guys. Girls overthink the things guys do. I dont know how old you are, but I'm assuming 11-14? Guys your age are usually shallow. Talk about sports. Figure out his favorite teams and research them and watch their games.

 

[♥Ariel♥]

I think girls are more complicated than guys. Girls overthink the things guys do. I dont know how old you are, but I'm assuming 11-14? Guys your age are usually shallow. Talk about sports. Figure out his favorite teams and research them and watch their games.

yeah i am almost fifteen and he is 16. but anywayz

 

[hkrox]

Just talk to him about anything. He won't care that much just don't over due it. I talk to guys and girls and to me they are the same.

 

[ohdisco]

How do you like someone you don't know or can't talk to?
I dunno, I'm big on talking; I dunno if I'd be able to hold any kind of attraction to a guy I wasn't comfortable enough to talk to.

Anyway, to answer your question, your best bet is to just figure out SOMETHING you have in common with him. It'll backfire if you research stuff. Just be yourself; if he doesn't like you, he isn't worth your time.