We also live in NY (Finger Lakes) and we just got back from a trip to the Catskills. I completely understand about wanting to get away to a place that's not your house for a few days! Originally we had planned on Gettysburg, which we really love, but wanted something a little different while still being drive able.
We stayed at The Roxbury at Stratton Falls, in Roxbury NY. This place is absolutely amazing. There are 2 locations about 2 miles apart. All the rooms are themed to the level of Disney quality. Cleanliness was impeccable and service was wonderful. Please check out their website if you're even a touch interested because I can't say enough good things about it. We visited Howe Caverns, which was really fun, ate at a few restaurants, and just hung out and drank wine. It is a quieter area than what we're used to so I'd recommend paying attention to what things are open on what days. For example, we had to scramble a little bit to find somewhere to eat on Monday.
It was honestly a great little getaway!