I will explain one more time - the OP wanted to give a skirted suit AS A GIFT to a friend. I know for a fact I am not the only one who associates a skirted suit with overweight women (or older women). IMHO, if a friend of mine gave me a skirted suit as a gift, I would think she was making a statement concerneing what she thought of my body/weight. To save her from the possibilty that her friend would also perceive this gift as a slight, I suggested she look for something else.
Sidenote: when I was fat, I did look for skirted suits, but now that I have lost almost 40 lbs., I'd never wear one again. I wore them, deluding myslef into thinking they were camoflaging my butt and thighs, but looking at photos, I can tell they did nothing for my figure but make me look dumpy. I now wear a tankini with a bikini bottom, not a skirt, which I think is much more common among average-size women age 30 - 50 than a skirted suit, or at least they seem to be from my personal observations.
And please, get over yourself. I am not referring to you (or anyone else) personally. I don't know you. I've never seen you. I honestly have no desire to try to see anyone from the DIS. I am not calling any one in particular fat. Even if you own a skirted suit, I am not calling you fat. I am merely saying that a particualr tyle of suit is favored by plussies, or Poohs or whatever euphasims you want to use. Not that the only person who wear a tankiki is a fat lump. Sheesh! Reading comprehension skills are a good thing, people, as is not reading too much into a post and persoanlizing the message!