Admit it, you've been that rude guest!

Now to other guests I have been rude, to the person that slammed a scooter into me while I was standing still (and had been for 5 min so I hadn't just suddenly stopped) in front of a display at GF (so not blocking any path), to the person that decided to stop and talk to her friend just in front of the door out of the bathroom (I said excuse me once and when she didn't move just pushed past her).

My DH totally hates these scooters!! He calls the Wally mobiles, after the WALL-E movie. I know there are people are do need these scooters to get around, however, some do think they own the "road" and don't watch out for those who are on foot. We were at F&W in EPCOT, I went to pass a woman on a scooter that was just "parked". She all of a sudden, started to go (with a beer in her hand). I literally had to jump across the front of her in order not to be run over. BTW - the only "handicap" I saw was that she had one too many. This is me now being rude.
 
Now to other guests I have been rude, to the person that slammed a scooter into me while I was standing still (and had been for 5 min so I hadn't just suddenly stopped) in front of a display at GF (so not blocking any path), to the person that decided to stop and talk to her friend just in front of the door out of the bathroom (I said excuse me once and when she didn't move just pushed past her).

My DH totally hates these scooters!! He calls the Wally mobiles, after the WALL-E movie. I know there are people are do need these scooters to get around, however, some do think they own the "road" and don't watch out for those who are on foot. We were at F&W in EPCOT, I went to pass a woman on a scooter that was just "parked". She all of a sudden, started to go (with a beer in her hand). I literally had to jump across the front of her in order not to be run over. BTW - the only "handicap" I saw was that she had one too many. This is me now being rude.
I do agree on the scooter thing. I get that people do need them, but that doesn't give them the right to throw their manners out the window.
 
I do agree on the scooter thing. I get that people do need them, but that doesn't give them the right to throw their manners out the window.
I work in NYC and if I go to walk around a slow mover (usually someone on their phone), I always glance over my shoulder first to make sure it is clear just like I do when I am driving. If people, whether walking, on a scooter, pushing a stroller, etc. did the same while in the parks, we would have far fewer incidents. I always wonder whether what we see in the parks is a reflection of how some people drive.
 
I always wonder whether what we see in the parks is a reflection of how some people drive.

Not as likely because in the real world, people are driving to go to work, buy groceries, take the kids to soccer games, events which aren't quite as exciting as theme park rides. I suspect if my town had a Space Mountain, Splash Mountain, and Toy Story Mania around each and every corner, the number of driving accidents would rise 100 fold.
 

I do agree on the scooter thing. I get that people do need them, but that doesn't give them the right to throw their manners out the window.
I look at it this way, you are going to have a certain amount of rude people in the parks (and in life). I don't think that there are a higher percentage of rude people in wheelchairs/scooters. The fact that they are in a scooter just gives people a difference (maybe a stereotype) to identify and then associate rudeness with that difference. I tend to give them a break and hope that I never need one.
 
I look at it this way, you are going to have a certain amount of rude people in the parks (and in life). I don't think that there are a higher percentage of rude people in wheelchairs/scooters. The fact that they are in a scooter just gives people a difference (maybe a stereotype) to identify and then associate rudeness with that difference. I tend to give them a break and hope that I never need one.
Nope, not associating rudeness with 'that difference',as you call it, and I didn't say there was a higher percentage. There are just as many rude people, probably more, not riding scooters. You can give all the scooters a break if you like but when someone in a scooter loaded up with kids and not paying attention runs into you or your child, that's rude, and I will not give them a break. Firstly, the scooter is for THEM, not their entire family, and scooter or not, rude is rude. I'm the last person to discriminate, as I have handicaps in my family including deafness and loss of limbs, but there ARE people who use their handicaps as an excuse to be rude, and their scooter as an excuse to barrel through people, and not just in the parks.
 
When my DD was in a stroller, we would watch the fireworks from the old hub near the popcorn stands. Then, when all of humanity would try to leave down Main Street all at once we would swim upstream to continue in the MK until closing. My DD would hold her little rotating light in her hand so people would see us. I am sorry for any inconvenience to all the families just trying to get out of Dodge while we were walking the other way with a stroller trying to make it back to Fantasyland.
 
I've had my times of being rude, not doubt. I deal pretty well with crowds. I'm from NY and commute in and out of Manhattan 5 days a week (as if that's a badge of honor...) But my family went to MK on NYE Day and the crowds were too much. My family tried to maneuver the crowds and get to the back of the park. There was a parade starting, so of course everyone lined the ropes. We went to the stores and exited by Casey's. I guess a family thought we were trying to jump in front of them - honestly, we weren't - we were heading to Tomorrowland - but they pushed up against us very hard. We were pinned against the rope and couldn't even bend to get under it. I felt claustrophobic and was worried for my dad who had mesh in his stomach from having his cancer removed a few years ago. I lost it. I unclasped a very tightly wound rope and kept walking. A CM yelled that I couldn't do that and I snapped toward them. I Started walking away when I realized how brash I sounded. I turned around, apologized to the CM, and explained the situation. She sported a smile (while probably thinking "okay jerk") and told me it was okay. I felt so cruddy the rest of the night.

My other time made me feel like a jerk - when I wasn't actually being a jerk. I broke my foot about 2 weeks before our Christmas trip. We almost canceled our trip, but our TA insisted that we not miss out on the vacation and recommended an ECV. At the time, I was 21. Now - a lot of people ride the ECVs that don't need them. I couldn't put weight on my foot, but was stuck in a boot, not a cast. It didn't exactly stand out - so if I wizzed passed you on the ECV, it looked like some young kid borrowing his grandma's ECV. I felt really embarrassed when I had to board the bus. Everyone would see me coming and shoot me looks. I just knew they thought I was faking it and taking advantage. My dad has a very.. "you-know-what - it" mentality. He knew I was injured as did my sister, so they both knew the rights at Disney. My mom and I get very self conscious. We would get on line and she'd make sure she'd ask me how my foot was feeling today... and she'd insist on me putting the crutches at back and using my crutches (even when my foot felt a little better) so people knew I was actually injured.
 
I am loving this thread! I am one of those people who tend to take things very personally and assume the worst with regard to the types of incidents of public rudeness that people are sharing here! By reading this thread, I am really convinced that much of the time the things that drive me crazy are really, genuinely accidents or miscommunication or crankiness bread of heat, humidity and exhaustion! I think this thread will help keep my blood pressure down on my next trip!! :-)
 
Okay, I admit it. Once, during MNSSHP I staked out a location on the parade route because I really wanted to try and photograph the headless horseman. Right before the parade started this clueless couple stepped right in front of me and my line of sight. I grumbled about them (I thought under my breath), but they heard me. I still feel bad about it.

I think I've had a lot more pixie dust type interactions with people, though, to make up for it.
 
... just pointing out that all requests are just that requests. I'm sure there were many other people who wanted room for their awnings also. virtually stomping your feet and insisting that nothing but tonight will do. no we can't wait till morning? yes, you were that rude guest ... 2003 yes I remember it well. I think that was about the time they started the no smoking rooms and no smoking on the balconies rule. we were smokers at that time, did a split stay, the first resort we had a smoking room, the 2nd? nope they were already deep cleaning the rooms. I know it's hard to adjust but nowadays smokers need to go to DSA's. hubby and I quit almost 5 years ago. he went aback to it about 2 years ago ... sigh ... but people smoking on balconies is inconsiderate to your neighbors who also want to enjoy their balcony. sorry, but it's true.

I apologize for the tardiness of this response. I first noticed your bright red text on a very busy day. And then, I'm afraid that it slipped my mind. A circumstance that is becoming increasingly common these days. In any event:

Yes, I was rude. Far beyond that. I was livid. And to this day I have no idea to what degree the three Cast Members who were present in the office that night were responsible for Disney's failure - in this instance - to exercise the most rudimentary norms of hospitality. And because of that, they received my apology for my behavior. However, briefly:

This was 1985. People still talked to people then. And this was our first trip of any length to WDW. So, I had spoken to Disney Cast Members (associated with Reservations and on staff at Fort Wilderness) no fewer than a dozen times before our arrival: the awning had become something of an inside joke during those conversations.

Initially, because my father had read or heard somewhere that the preferred - and more expensive - loops/sites (up front/close by Pioneer Hall) could be noisy, my one request had been that we be assigned a spot in the back of the campground. But, when it became apparent that space for the awning was the most important consideration, I asked, during several calls, if everyone was absolutely certain that the sites in the rear of Fort Wilderness would accommodate the awning. And if there was any chance that ours might not, I asked to be given the opportunity to change our reservation. I was assured that that wouldn't be necessary. In fact, when I first offered the awning's measurements, I was told that that also wasn't necessary. The awning would unfurl on any Fort Wilderness RV site. I submitted the measurements anyway.

So, I don't know, with any certainty, what happened. I do know that, whatever it was, it had nothing to do with a paucity of empty, spacious campsites. We were there for ten days and they were all around us. There were three within sight of our own that remained unoccupied the length of our stay. As for my insistence that we be allowed to move that night:

My parents had already done whatever needed to be (or could be) done outside (hookups, etc). But I saw absolutely no reason why they should have to go through the process of 'unpacking' the motor home that night only to have to stow everything again in the morning. Too, I saw absoluely no reason why we should have to go through the entire scene again with the day-shift Cast Members. We were up. They were up (and certainly not demandingly engaged). Half the campground was up. There was no reason not to do it then. Other than that they preferred to have someone else deal with the problem. Finally:

I spent 45 years in service and sales industries. Most of them as a commissioned agent. No hourly wage. No salary. And I cannot recall an instance when, knowing that I was going to have to disappoint a client/customer by whom my company was being handsomely paid, I permitted them to be nastily surprised by my inability to fulfil their requests. I too much preferred to help keep the roof over my head. Note: Disney employees have far more often amazed us with outstanding service than they have shocked us with poor.

As for smoking:

I was, for over forty years, one of those smokers. I never smoked in the presence of those I didn't know well without asking if it would cause them to be uncomfortable or concerned. I never disposed of a cigarette any where other than in an ashtray. Ever. In fact, when all of the ash receptacles disappeared from public spaces, I carried a valet in my purse. I have never smoked in any one of the ever-widening areas designated Non-Smoking by the movement that first said that it 'had absolutely no wish to ban smoking or inconvenience smokers'. Who, they announced ever so cloyingly in their slippery-slope beginnings, only wanted some small, inobtrusive smoke-free places for their very own. I played by their rules.

I was a '50s child: I never smoked while walking ... anywhere. Cocktail parties aside, ladies sat when they smoked.

I never smoked on a public street until I was forced there. And that is how they, ultimately, won. I stopped smoking several years ago. In the interim I had a great deal to say on the subject. Now, I no longer debate the matter. It should be, I think, enough for everyone concerned about their welfare to know that the world's balconies are safe from me ... :)

 
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i too was a 50's child.. we know now so much more.. how sitting on a balcony next to someone on the next balcony smoking can be harmful. I also didn't understand how annoying the smoke it until I quit myself. the only reason I quit was to help my husband quit, since he is losing his eyesight and his retinal specailist said how bad smoking is for vision.
I know how annoying it was when all of a sudden we couldn't smoke anywhere! but now I understand. thanks for your consideration!!!! and congrats on quitting smoking yourself!
 
I never felt like being rude until I started dating someone in a wheelchair. People are so dense. I'm trying to push him up a hill and you stop right in front of me? Really? And if another adult steps out in front of me, they might need a wheelchair themselves! I mean, you seriously can't wait two seconds? So, yeah, you might get a "yep, that looks like a great place to stop." or "Guess you don't like that ankle!" People need to be aware.
 
I never felt like being rude until I started dating someone in a wheelchair. People are so dense. I'm trying to push him up a hill and you stop right in front of me? Really? And if another adult steps out in front of me, they might need a wheelchair themselves! I mean, you seriously can't wait two seconds? So, yeah, you might get a "yep, that looks like a great place to stop." or "Guess you don't like that ankle!" People need to be aware.

I think there is a distinct difference between your example where someone steps or stops in front of a wheelchair, ECV, stroller etc. without warning and one where the driver of such conveyances plows ahead without regard to people around them. ALL people need to be aware, not just those on foot.
 
I think there is a distinct difference between your example where someone steps or stops in front of a wheelchair, ECV, stroller etc. without warning and one where the driver of such conveyances plows ahead without regard to people around them. ALL people need to be aware, not just those on foot.
Just to play Devil's Advocate --- What you may observe as an ECV plowing into ppl without situational awareness could actually be a case where the walking person crossed in front of the ECV too closely, and the ECV couldn't stop quickly enough.
 
Just to play Devil's Advocate --- What you may observe as an ECV plowing into ppl without situational awareness could actually be a case where the walking person crossed in front of the ECV too closely, and the ECV couldn't stop quickly enough.

I have personally observed individuals on an ECV suddenly move into a crowd from where they were parked and also hit people that were in front of them already but not moving fast enough for them. I'm not talking about cases where I didn't see the "before" to know.
 
Having worked in service-oriented positions most of my life (retail, box office, social services), I am hyper-sensitive about never being 'that' guest/customer. On my DH's first-ever trip to WDW, it was also his birthday and I think he let all the Disney magic go to his head a bit. We're big Star Wars fans and had been riding Star Tours several times on the trip. My SIL was in an ECV due to recovering from a badly broken leg, so every time we went on, we were in gates A, B or C. DH got it in his head that we were missing certain scenes because we never went on gates D, E or F - despite constant assurances from the CMs that they were totally randomized and they had no control over what played. He started getting very insistent about it and speaking to every CM on the ride about it. Finally, they agreed to let us go on gate D, even though it was closed for the night. The CM who was running our ride was incredible. He was really engaged and crossed his fingers for us that we would see one of the missing scenes. When the ride ended, he asked if we'd had any luck - but it was still pod races and Naboo. So, he said, "Oh no! We're going again!" and got on the walkie to let them know we were coming back through. Even with his best efforts, we still got scenes we'd already seen, but I was so grateful to him for trying so hard. As we were leaving the ride, my DH made a mildly snotty comment about it being 'their job' to make all that extra effort. My jaw dropped and I immediately got on his case (albeit quietly and conversationally because I didn't want to cause a scene). It is NICE that CM's go above and beyond when they can, but it is to be appreciated and not expected as your due for being demanding. You can bet that didn't happen again for the rest of the trip.
 
i once complained about the food quality/safety at POP (every meal we had was ice cold, and I work as a kitchen manager in a restaurant). I finally got ahold of guest relations via phone because the front desk was no help and the official word from them was to stay sonewhere nicer next time. Needless to say I returned to the front desk and demanded to speak to anyone else about that and the whole thing and no one cared. I did get ahold of someone when I got home but at the time I was definitely THAT guest in the moment. I couldn't believe that was the best answer Disney management could come up with
 
i once complained about the food quality/safety at POP (every meal we had was ice cold, and I work as a kitchen manager in a restaurant). I finally got ahold of guest relations via phone because the front desk was no help and the official word from them was to stay sonewhere nicer next time. Needless to say I returned to the front desk and demanded to speak to anyone else about that and the whole thing and no one cared. I did get ahold of someone when I got home but at the time I was definitely THAT guest in the moment. I couldn't believe that was the best answer Disney management could come up with

I did find this a problem at pop the last tme we stayed there. (although previous times, I did not have a problem).. I am a server and have taken the food safety classes. and the last tinme we stayed at pop I had to take our meals and go right over to the microwaves with them. I don't mind my meals a little cooled off, after witing in line and all. but i like them a little bit more than luke warm.

I think I heard there was new management at the pop food court.. right before they made the (IMO) horrible decision to eliminate the Mom's night out meals and eliminate the shrimp lo mein, which was VERY popular. I think they are trying for some strange reason to "compete" with the new landscape of flavors food court at AOA. why compete? they are walking distance from each other the pop food court WAS wonderful as it was!
 



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