I still can't link mine and I've been trying several times a day for a few weeks. I've called and chatted with customer service and the tech department and they keep saying the same thing...wait a day or two and it will be there. Nope. We're 29 days out now and I just want to see my reservation! If I get some crappy hole in the wall room because I couldn't do early check in, I'm going to be very angry!
One thing I found is that when I am logged in, it's under my name. But, if I use the drop down for different parties, and chose "My Family", my resort reservation appears under that tab. Hope that helps.
Phew! Thanks for the info. I figured it was a first come first served kind of thing. This whole website thing is making me feel incredibly non-magical.