Sorry my Jack Day post was so small i was distracted when i was posting... ok so like i said before we picked out our ceremony!

It is sooooo pretty and i think very us. Here are the vows:
"From this day on, I,_______, chose you, _______, to be my wife/husband. To live with you and laugh with you, to stand by your side and sleep in your arms. To always listen to you, to labor with you, and encourage you. To bring out the best in you always, and, for you, to be the most that I can."
::Bring in the tears!!!!::
Then after that reverend jack then says
Do you _____ promise to love, hold, and adore _____, in good times and in bad. To enjoy her/him, console her/him, delight her/him, and astound her/him. To work together to build your love, to speak openly and honestly, and maintain the respect and trust between you. To give thenks to her/him always, and to die with this love that you have for her/him
thats when we respond "I do"
Isn't that so sweet! Come on, everybody now... "AWWWWWE!!!!!!!!!!!!!"
But in all seriouseness i was very concerned because we didn't want the traditional vows but we were also WAYYYY to scared to write our own so this is perfect! I couldn't believe how emotional i got! So i got the green light and filled out the contract and i'm sending it over to him!

I added alitte note in there asking him if instead of a unity candle we could do unity sand instead.
I'm so excited girls! Finally I feel really really good about everything and i'm starting to realize that i DO NOT need anyones help (other than you girls of course!

) and that DF and I will be just fine!

I'm having a stroke of good luck and I'm going to ride it out for as long as i can!
