I completely understand and remember what you are talking about, Tiff - military is on call 24/7 and that's not just because of a "war" or "conflict" - it's always that way.
Can't begin to count the times we had to cancel plans because we had to go back to work or changed shifts. Just the way it is in the military, so if anyone would give the military something - it's just a tiny way for them to show appreciation to both the service person and their family.
Still, with all considered, I wouldn't change a thing from my active duty days - that sence of pride and accomplishment is worth more than just a fading memory!
Rae