Honestly OP, I do feel for you but those prices are AMAZING! We've been paying close to $700/month with the employer paying even more and this year I was excited that ours went down to $300/month with adding a much higher deductible than yours. It's been "normal" for us to spend 10-15% of our income on just insurance and medical expenses many years. The one family I know with a 50K income on the Michigan exchange is paying about $900/month for their policy. As frustrating as it is you might want to be grateful you are in NY and not some other states. I completely understand your need to vent though, it sucks to have to pay but if anybody gets really sick you will be glad you did.
That varies by state- some states individuals actually pay for it like any insurance.Employers pay for all unemployment with Federal and State unemployment taxes. The employees do not pay into the system at all. Payroll taxes only go toward Social Security and Medicare.