I have questions too.
I know I was advised to not go to WC because of my boyfriend who hates attention. But I figure I can get away with it because it is my birthday.
I have read in a few places that there is a quieter area that you can request. If you request this area, can you still observe the antics?
Or if we sit in the main area, will he be ok if he doesn't participate in any sing-a-longs? My friend and I will participate though.